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19 Nov 2019, 9:29 pm

I’m homophobic.



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19 Nov 2019, 10:56 pm

I guess I'm kind of homophobic but I don't hate people for their orientation. I just think that homosexual behavior is wrong, but I also don't think masturbation is healthy either, so while homosexual acts are pretty high on the list of truly awful things, I think the urge is quite understandable rather like the interest in masturbating.

Gay culture is creepy, though so is aggressively "straight" culture. Which isn't really healthy either--it's promiscuous.


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20 Nov 2019, 2:16 am

Borromeo wrote:
I guess I'm kind of homophobic but I don't hate people for their orientation. I just think that homosexual behavior is wrong, but I also don't think masturbation is healthy either, so while homosexual acts are pretty high on the list of truly awful things, I think the urge is quite understandable rather like the interest in masturbating.

Gay culture is creepy, though so is aggressively "straight" culture. Which isn't really healthy either--it's promiscuous.

Wanting sex is in hardwired into our brain same as almost every creature on the planet. Fighting that is almost a lost cause

Also To an alien gay or straight sex would be equally bizzare



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20 Nov 2019, 2:31 am

50% of gay men i've spoken to on the internet have offered me psychedelic mushrooms.


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20 Nov 2019, 2:35 am

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I have friends, close friends who are gay. But they are the type of gays who are more like straights, in the respect that they don't barge into a room announcing they are gay.

All gays I know in person are like that - just regular persons. More or less open about the fact that their significant other is the same sex. That's all about it.


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20 Nov 2019, 5:43 am

magz wrote:
Persephone29 wrote:
I have friends, close friends who are gay. But they are the type of gays who are more like straights, in the respect that they don't barge into a room announcing they are gay.

All gays I know in person are like that - just regular persons. More or less open about the fact that their significant other is the same sex. That's all about it.



Well, I am older. And my friends have usually been even older than I am, so maybe that type of low profile approach is a holdover from the 'don't ask, don't tell' era. Maybe that is viewed as oppressive, I don't know. I still don't see what making everyone aware of one's sexual orientation contributes to a conversation. Especially since most people don't talk about sex over coffee, if they are just friends.

A mention of sexual orientation during a conversation about how my dwarf Azaleas are all of a sudden blooming in the cold seems odd to me; a non sequitur. Yet I see younger gays insist that everyone in a room know they are gay and it's a turn off. If rejected, they'll accuse people of being homophobic. When in reality it's just TMI (too much information)...


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20 Nov 2019, 5:57 am

In casual conversiations things like "my girlfriend likes this TV series but I'm not a fan of it" can be heard all the time - and some gays I know simply don't hide who their significant other is.
No talking about sex, talking about everyday life.

Making everything about sex and your orientation is inappropriate, regardless of your preferences in that area.


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20 Nov 2019, 7:03 am

I think they're gay.


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20 Nov 2019, 8:25 am

magz wrote:
In casual conversiations things like "my girlfriend likes this TV series but I'm not a fan of it" can be heard all the time - and some gays I know simply don't hide who their significant other is.
No talking about sex, talking about everyday life.

Making everything about sex and your orientation is inappropriate, regardless of your preferences in that area.


True, that doesn't bother me. We all tend to mention our significant others.


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20 Nov 2019, 8:26 am

Wolfram87 wrote:
I think they're gay.



Brilliant deduction! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:


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20 Nov 2019, 9:25 am

Not much along with most everyone else.



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21 Nov 2019, 6:10 am

EzraS wrote:
Not much along with most everyone else.


I should probably clarify that. I mean that I don't think about gays very often just as I don't think about most any other demographic very often.



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21 Nov 2019, 8:16 am

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Not much along with most everyone else.


I should probably clarify that. I mean that I don't think about gays very often just as I don't think about most any other demographic very often.



Same


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21 Nov 2019, 8:28 am

Persephone29 wrote:
Wolfram87 wrote:
I think they're gay.



Brilliant deduction! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:


What can I say, I'm just observant like that. :lol:


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21 Nov 2019, 8:28 am

Honestly I don't really care who hates me for being gay as long as they arent trying to stick a pink triangle badge on me and put me in a death camp.

Although I wouldn't put it past Americans to do that someday once our Democracy is flushed down the toilet and they allow certain fundie fanatics to get too powerful in the government.

I mean, I didn't think that we would be bringing the use of internment camps back after World War 2. And I used to think that our country was above torturing its enemies. :shrug:


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21 Nov 2019, 8:38 am

I've already accepted a long time ago that some people are gonna hate me no matter what. They'll hate me for being gay, for being autistic and bipolar, for being from the deep south, etc. Well, f**k em all I say. :lol: :twisted:


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