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19 Sep 2007, 9:23 pm

I suppose he might be a good looking guy, so it isn't that shocking or disgusting for you I guess.

It could be exhibisionism.


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19 Sep 2007, 9:51 pm

greenblue wrote:
I suppose he might be a good looking guy, so it isn't that shocking or disgusting for you I guess.

It could be exhibisionism.


Yeah, while shocking, it certainly wasn't disgusting. I guess I'll have to go look up exhibitionism, now. As an Aspie, I don't like being looked at, so I can't understand people who deliberately provoke stares.


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19 Sep 2007, 10:01 pm

Don't be too embarassed. If dude was in front of the window naked, he apparently didn't care much if someone saw him. In fact, he may have even been deliberate about it. If he was hot, so much the better! :lol:


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19 Sep 2007, 11:32 pm

first: Lucky lucky you!
second: I'm betting he wanted to be seen, was probably thrilling for him, the aspect of "getting caught"

third: I would have been very embarrased anyway, and I would have laughed my a** off!


I had a guy roomate once and I came home from work one morning (I worked night shift) and he had been out clubbing all night and came home drunk and passed out completely buck naked on my couch!! !! It was so funny, but at the same time, dude! it was my couch!! !! and what were you doing on it!


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19 Sep 2007, 11:52 pm

jaleb wrote:
first: Lucky lucky you!
second: I'm betting he wanted to be seen, was probably thrilling for him, the aspect of "getting caught"

third: I would have been very embarrased anyway, and I would have laughed my a** off!


I had a guy roomate once and I came home from work one morning (I worked night shift) and he had been out clubbing all night and came home drunk and passed out completely buck naked on my couch!! !! It was so funny, but at the same time, dude! it was my couch!! !! and what were you doing on it!


Yeah, I guess I am lucky, since he looks like an actor named Zac Efron, if I'm spelling correctly. And yes, I did LMFAO when I got inside. The idea of coming home to a buck naked male roommate is funny as hell, IMO.


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20 Sep 2007, 6:09 pm

Sounds to me like he was displaying the goods to see if you're interested. I guess he's getting bored with his fiance. :twisted:


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20 Sep 2007, 6:51 pm

Probably. Maybe she's insecure, because she does PDA's when I pass them. Maybe he's untrustworthy, or something.


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21 Sep 2007, 8:33 am

MysteryFan3 wrote:
Sounds to me like he was displaying the goods to see if you're interested. I guess he's getting bored with his fiance. :twisted:


I thought this too. Or maybe the exhibitionist thing. I think some guys do this for fun and others to freak people out maybe? I'd have laughed too. My neice had a neighbour who regularly used to stand naked in his bedroom window (which was right opposite hers) we used to have a good laugh about it but when he saw us laughing it put him off and he's not done it since. Spoilsport! :lol:

I have a (female) neighbour who does this kind of thing and a few of the male neighbours I've discovered through the grapevine find this interesting/fun but also a little weird and intimidating, so a whole range of reactions there.

(What's PDA btw?)



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21 Sep 2007, 12:35 pm

PDA is public display of affection.


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21 Sep 2007, 1:56 pm

she is probably threatned by you if she is giving him PDA everytime they see you, or maybe he has talked about you to her!! !! (guys do that kind of thing! or at least some of the losers I used to date did to me)


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21 Sep 2007, 2:14 pm

MysteryFan3 wrote:
Sounds to me like he was displaying the goods to see if you're interested.


:lol:


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21 Sep 2007, 5:18 pm

Even with my inability to read non verbals, I always feel tension when those two are around. Between them, about me. I have gone out of my way to be nice to the woman, (she is nice, so it isn't hard) but an incident that occurred when I first moved in warned me. A strange girl came to my door and wanted to know if this guy was at my house. I thought she had the wrong address, didn't even know his name at that point, so I suggested that she try some of the other houses. Then she said, that this guy's girlfriend was a friend of hers. I couldn't fathom why she'd come all the way to my house to tell me she had friends. She acted as if she expected me to invite her in for a look around, which I of course didn't. Someone explained that she was "running interference" for her friend.

I should have suggested that they keep him on a leash, to prevent him entering strange women's houses. :twisted: But I don't think they would have appreciated my humor.


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21 Sep 2007, 7:28 pm

Speaking of nude males ........

I worked as a team physiotherapist for a football club for 2 years. I looked after 4 teams.

I was in the change rooms after the game to tend to injuries.

It was funny, the under 21 teams would shower in their undies.

The senior players who were used to having female support staff around would prance around naked.

I had to make it a rule though that they put their undies on before I would check out their injuries. There was nothing more gross than when they had a towel around their waist and would get up on the bench to show me their sore knee/ankle and I'd cop an eyeful.

Sorry guys, it ain't pretty! :lol:

Anyway, I'd told my husband about the nudity etc. One day after a game I invited him into the change room.

It was hilarious. My husband is Aspie and he was just staring at these naked guys. Really staring.

A few came up - naked - and said, 'Hi, I'm John. Your wife is doing a great job looking after our injuries mate. Want a beer?'

My husband wasn't jealous or anything, he just thought I'd be exaggerating when I said they walked around nude.

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21 Sep 2007, 7:37 pm

:lol:


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21 Sep 2007, 10:29 pm

One time, my then partner and I were in the bedroom going at it crazy full throttlle... you know those moments when you don't even know what's up or down, you're ensconced in the pleasure dome and you just keep banging away and shoving it in as your partner keeps screaming on top of the lungs for you not to stop, and then suddenly, in the middle of all the action, the corner of the bed broke in a very loud thud and we heard these weird applause and cheering coming from outside and we noticed we had left the bedroom patio door ajar and there were people in the adjacent apartment building watching us from above. :oops: :oops: :oops:
It took us quit a while to walk on that side of the street...

Definitely not something that will happen ever again. :roll:



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21 Sep 2007, 10:48 pm

Oh, my God! how humiliating! I couldn't have ever lived that down. :oops:


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