KristaMeth wrote:
Pandora wrote:
My older daughter is spending most of her time at her boyfriend's house and his mum smokes like a chimney. She reeks of smoke a lot of times she comes here.
I was concerned before but now I'm really worried because she is in the early stages of pregnancy and I don't want her to get cancer or the baby to be damaged.
The lady smokes because she is in a lot of pain from a bad back and it makes her feel better and because of the bad back, she would find it hard to go outside every time she wants to light up (which I think is the most considerate thing to do) so it is a worry.
Plus, she doesn't want her youngest son (the baby's dad) to leave because all her other kids have already left home.
The thing that really makes me angry is seeing people blowing smoke near a baby or a pet or seeing pregnant women puffing away. I also read recently that nicotine is THE most addictive drug in the world. It is very difficult to give up smoking.
It also strikes me as quite ludicrous when young girls who are pretty and nicely dressed up ruin the whole effect by smoking cigarettes that smell like burning rubbish at the local dump. Not all cigarettes smell like that but enough do to make it quite offensive to sit near smokers.
Second hand smoke is very dangerous to a fetus... maybe do some reading and inform your daughter of this.
I think it's really, really disrespectful to smoke around a prego.
When I was pregnant, hormones all crazy and whatnot, I'd go PSYCHO on anyone who smoked around me. Other than that I was pure sunshine though

I used to feel like vomiting when I was pregnant and somebody smoked around me. While I was pregnant with my older daughter, smoking was still allowed in the workplace and I was worried it would damage my baby so I used to keep away from the smokers as much as I could.
I now get coughing fits near smokers but they don't usually get the hint.
My daughter is trying to convince her boyfriend not to smoke too. She's tried saying it makes him stink. He usually does it when he is drinking with other people so it is pretty much of a social thing.
Sash is reading lots of things about pregnancy and fetal development and looking at pictures on the internet. Even at 9 weeks (which she is), the babies have identifiably human feet and hands with all the fingers and toes visible but they are incredibly small.
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