HELP! I THINK IM GAY!! ! please reply!

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25 Feb 2008, 6:53 am

wsmac wrote:
OMG! all I see is a 'broken link' box! What does this mean??????


It means you are gay. If you're straight, you'll see women in bikinis. If you're bi, you'll see both.



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25 Feb 2008, 8:52 am

my best friend is gay. i think it's a great thing. i would tell your parents, but i know that's a very tough thing!

have you ever acted on any of your feelings? how old are you?



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25 Feb 2008, 11:30 am

Kris94 wrote:
does this make me gay?


Uh, let's see... Wants to have sex with persons of the same sex... YES!

Kris94 wrote:
im beginning to like the idea of being gay and i think i should tell my mum and dad about it. (they are supportive of me and say i can be gay if i want to although i haven't came out to them yet...)


If you have any reason to believe coming out to someone will make your life worse, don't do it.
Nobody have a right to know about your sexuality, nor do you have a responsibility to tell people about your sexuality.
It's kind of like saying "Hi, I'm Bob, and my mother has hemorrhoids!"
Quite probably, people don't want to know or just don't care, and if they found out and started hating you for it, then you know where you have those people, and you just shun them out of your life as garbage that you don't need.

You ought to like it, because it is a part of you, and why shouldn't you like yourself?
As 2, the ranting gryphon said: "Maybe I'm just lazy, maybe I just want someone to have fun with, watch football and drink beer with AND have sex with without having to drive to two different houses?"
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26 Feb 2008, 5:01 pm

Kilroy wrote:
well you may be bi
well actually everyone is somewhat bi

once in everyone's life they feel attraction or something to their own gender
not a bad thing
gives you more options


agreed



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26 Feb 2008, 5:31 pm

kattoo13 wrote:
my best friend is gay. i think it's a great thing.


I don't think it's a "great thing", it's just a status. I mean, it doesn't qualify you for greatness or anything. To me, it's as routine as thinking, "Wow, I think I'm straight! Isn't that awesome?!" So what?


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26 Feb 2008, 8:28 pm

Kilroy wrote:
well you may be bi
well actually everyone is somewhat bi

once in everyone's life they feel attraction or something to their own gender
not a bad thing
gives you more options

well, perhaps in some cases, I have felt some of attraction to something from myself only, not from others, so that might sound more like narcisism than bisexual, which it raises the question if that could be considered somehow part of bi or not :P

Sometimes it seems that it isn't the attraction but more like the sensation, like if someone stroke your hair or your back regardless of what is the sex of the person, you feel relaxed and sometimes getting a little aroused, it has happened to me. However, this seems to be independent from the attraction.

I consider myself straight btw :P


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26 Feb 2008, 8:35 pm

Ragtime wrote:
kattoo13 wrote:
my best friend is gay. i think it's a great thing.


I don't think it's a "great thing", it's just a status. I mean, it doesn't qualify you for greatness or anything. To me, it's as routine as thinking, "Wow, I think I'm straight! Isn't that awesome?!" So what?

Yeah, just as being an aspie, it doesn't qualify for greatness and awsomess either, just for being that or this.


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28 Feb 2008, 4:06 pm

zen_mistress wrote:
((((((Kris))))) Many of my friends are gay or bi. They are great people.


How stereotypical. I've met several gays and bis, some of them are great, some of them suck.


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