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16 Aug 2008, 7:28 am

i think my future is already screwd up very badly if i stay ill probbely end up in a lunitic house if i run off ill probely become poor but atleast i wont be sitting in a luni house

i just need to be away from everything and restart



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16 Aug 2008, 7:34 am

Well, if you're in the right sort of environment for it, buy a tent, buy camping gear and supplies, and just retreat from humanity for a few months to recover. That's what I do.
Anytime the inane, boring, simple people in my world become to much... Right, off to the Northern Territory for three months!


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16 Aug 2008, 7:35 am

UndercoverAlien wrote:
i think my future is already screwd up very badly if i stay ill probbely end up in a lunitic house if i run off ill probely become poor but atleast i wont be sitting in a luni house

i just need to be away from everything and restart


If you are under the age when you are legally considered an adult and you run away, this is what will happen: 48 hours after you have left, the police will begin a search for you and, if they find you, you will be back at your parents house again. There could also be other legal complications involving either money from you that you can't afford or money from your parents which may just cause even more animosity.



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16 Aug 2008, 7:59 am

running away for like three months and then comming back would allow my parents to tread me as a lost case and even a more idiot so thats not an option asking to run off for 3 months will only get laughed at me

and the police wont be a problem i think atleast when i run away and they find me back i had a little bit time alone and a bit freely and ill change my appearance money can be a problem yes but cant i get some
underpaid job or something,like a vacation job but after school?that also still gives me the possibility to go to an orfanag



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16 Aug 2008, 9:09 am

claire333 wrote:
My advice...go hug your parents.


I think the same. Your family is the best place to stay. Someday you'll understand this.



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16 Aug 2008, 9:18 am

I'm through giving advise.



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16 Aug 2008, 9:53 am

then how will i be able to re-corect my life at this age cause waiting till im 18-19 could take a while any advice is welcome :|



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16 Aug 2008, 10:04 am

What do you expect us to say? I doubt that anyone is going to advise you to run away from home. If your parents are abusing you, then turn them in. Otherwise, your best and smartest choice is to stick it out. Most people feel misunderstood by their parents,even as adults. Parental love sometimes sucks. I should know; I am one. Go hug your parents and tell them how you truly feel. I would bet all I own that they love you.



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16 Aug 2008, 10:16 am

its not because of my parents mostly, its more because of my life is realy in a dramaticly
downspiral.school is getting way to hard for me and i'm sort of lock'd up and desocialised wich wasn't the case before so its
like going from 1000 to 0.001 been true alot also cant stand it anymore and i also
dont expect some one to advice me to run away i know that but still i can't live like im living now so i need to make big
changes im also a guy who dont give up easly on a plan.i can only learn if something is wrong to do by taking action and
figure it out.also its not many diffrence if i go now or over 2 years



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16 Aug 2008, 6:52 pm

bro.

I'm 21 practically.

do not run away.

if you have issues.

seek a counselor.


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17 Aug 2008, 11:51 am

my life is so ***** deppressing right now dont think some one could help me now running away is atleast a solution



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17 Aug 2008, 12:02 pm

do whatever the hell you want. You're going to anyway.



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17 Aug 2008, 12:20 pm

Who do you think will take care of you, your friends parents, not bloody likely, you will end up on the street and become a drug addict or worse. You really don't sound capable of living on your own, its not fun living on the streets, being cold and hungry, having no money. You think your depressed now with your little Emo depression, try it on living on your own, having an empty stomach, you'll find out how being destitute feels, and what hopelessly depressed is. All the world needs is another drug addicted street kid turning tricks, or stealing to feed their drug habit. Quit being a whining little snot and tough it out at home, finish school, even if it sucks, we all know school sucks, and try to help out at home, that part of learning some life skills, taking some responsibility at home, by running away, your also running from your responsibility.



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17 Aug 2008, 1:01 pm

this is not an emo depression and i dont realy care that im short at eating because im not a spoiled piece of crapp in matter of fact i hate those sort of people i also hate people who just asume that i am one of those <.< my house is like crapp tbh try to give real advice inplace of thinking im some stupid emo cry-cut baby spoiled kid who whants to run away because a small think happend -_-
(this is not meant to be a crappy command just whanna make clear that its no small emo depresion)
btw the longer i stay here the more im gonna give up hope



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17 Aug 2008, 1:42 pm

I didn't imply you were an emo, but I am speaking from experience, do you honestly think that running away from your problems is going to magically solve them, you still going to be depressed, only now you will have to fend for yourself. Anyhow your response comes off as extremely immature, so go a head run away, Emo.



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17 Aug 2008, 2:02 pm

i dont whant to look imature cause im quite mature but living like im living now can't go on its not like i gonna get some sort of miracle staying here eather i overloockd the facts over and over again just need to take action, its not like i whant to do all those stuff like i said the longer i stay here the more i get depressed and once school starts again ill be getting crazy again
(btw you said you had any expierience with it, can you tell me wich?|doesn't have to if you dont whant|)