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shortfatbalduglyman wrote:
the food i want, i can't afford financially. or it causes bowel movement difficulty. or something like that.
no hope
despair
disrepair
no future
no prospects
join the military
illuminati
panhandling
write a book
too lazy
sloth
slovenly
too lazy to sit up straight, stand up straight, talk
decision making fatigue
do the same thing day after day
civilian conservation corps
job corps
too old for that
35 years old
americorps
peace corps
anyways i deal with change badly and slowly
even tiny amounts of change
the counselor told me that the professional treatment for personality disorders, is dialectical behavioral therapy
and that is, what, one hundred bucks an hour?
the insurance stops paying for counseling, as of november this year
or maybe the counselor was just overmarketing counseling.
like the
Snuggie the blanket that was also a coat/jacket
the advertisement made it look like not having a Snuggie was a huge problem
and having a snuggie was awesome.
thus exaggerating the value of a snuggie.
same with counseling. the counselor told me that she has never seen me "angry" before but if i do get "angry", then "we will deal with it."
wtf?
35 years old.
the first counselor i saw was when i was sixteen.
there are only five emotions: happy, sad, angry, surprised, scared.
one in five emotions is angry.
she acted like i knew how to deal with anger zero percent. and she acted like she knew how to deal with anger one hundred percent.
but it is more like i am at five percent and she is at ten percent.
anger is an emotion.
not a catastrophe.
not even an event.
any more than happiness is an event
seriously i am uncomfortable with all emotions, not just anger
for the counselor to tell me what she told me sounded a bit condescending
but yes i know she meant well and all that stupid BS
no hope
despair
disrepair
no future
no prospects
join the military
illuminati
panhandling
write a book
too lazy
sloth
slovenly
too lazy to sit up straight, stand up straight, talk
decision making fatigue
do the same thing day after day
civilian conservation corps
job corps
too old for that
35 years old
americorps
peace corps
anyways i deal with change badly and slowly
even tiny amounts of change
the counselor told me that the professional treatment for personality disorders, is dialectical behavioral therapy
and that is, what, one hundred bucks an hour?
the insurance stops paying for counseling, as of november this year
or maybe the counselor was just overmarketing counseling.
like the
Snuggie the blanket that was also a coat/jacketthe advertisement made it look like not having a Snuggie was a huge problem
and having a snuggie was awesome.
thus exaggerating the value of a snuggie.
same with counseling. the counselor told me that she has never seen me "angry" before but if i do get "angry", then "we will deal with it."
wtf?
35 years old.
the first counselor i saw was when i was sixteen.
there are only five emotions: happy, sad, angry, surprised, scared.
one in five emotions is angry.
she acted like i knew how to deal with anger zero percent. and she acted like she knew how to deal with anger one hundred percent.
but it is more like i am at five percent and she is at ten percent.
anger is an emotion.
not a catastrophe.
not even an event.
any more than happiness is an event
seriously i am uncomfortable with all emotions, not just anger
for the counselor to tell me what she told me sounded a bit condescending
but yes i know she meant well and all that stupid BS
there are good "how to" books on dialectical behavioral therapy. might be more challenging on your own, but worth a try.
CockneyRebel
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19 May 2018, 7:29 pm
CockneyRebel
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Joined: 17 Jul 2004
Age: 51
Gender: Male
Posts: 121,237
Location: In my own little country
19 May 2018, 7:33 pm
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19 May 2018, 8:01 pm
Spending Saturday evening and night all alone while others are having fun and guys my age are getting girlfriends. 
20 May 2018, 1:30 am
Marknis wrote:
Spending Saturday evening and night all alone while others are having fun and guys my age are getting girlfriends.
comparing ourselves to others isn't helpful. i have some things i enjoy doing alone: reading, writing, listening to music, occasionally even cleaning. do you have any such activities?
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20 May 2018, 9:27 am
My future, wondering if I will ever start maturing. 
20 May 2018, 6:40 pm
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