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A lady in A town I lived in during grade 10... 1 yr younger than me..


Committed suicide last week.. I saw her RIP wishes on my facebook n invitation to attend funeral prayers fr her but didnt know her ..
My friend told me how she died after trying to discuss mental health with me yesterday.. It was burdening my friends heart ..


Same circumstances as mine in most ways... Married at same age as I was. Same age gap between her and her Husband. Same number of kids. Except she was educated unlike me and had a large social network.


Divorce.
XH trying to do bad things n get sole custody.. Except in her case he succeeded n ran off to Dubai with the kids. She was unable to contact them or do anything

She was far more accomplished than I even till she died she was applying fr other courses n different things..

She volunteered AND Worked at a domestic abuse shelter... Designed logos n things for businesses ..

Modeled...

Was a Waterloo graduate.

My friend H. from gr 10 who is the only one im in touch with now and sent me a message to attend her funeralprayer.. She went to her funeral..

Knew her struggles. N blames herself and the whole Muslim community in that area for not checking up on her more n taking care of her
Many ppl knew she had severe depression.


She was well known amongst everyone and even attended prayers at masjid unlike me...
Spoke of that whole thing today to my parents. My dad was furious at the man for robbing his ex wife and kids of contact.

My prayers go out to you Blooie, and to her friends, family and children.

May she rest in peace.

Don't get me started on the way she was treated.

She cut off contact from everyone for months prior according to my friend but everyone assumed she was okay as she was accomplishing a lot and put on a brave face. Edited to remove unnecessary bit

She was posting on facebook etc. I told my friend ppl are very busy nowadays too and if someone is putting on a brave onwards and upwards stance it's hard to tell.

Thanks for praying for her and all such people in dire situations.

I just saw her linkedin filled with accomplishments and Instagram and she looks like a vibrant, beautiful, happy woman with no hint of sadness. That's how deeply it can be hidden.

that am not able to search posts made since my last visit one has to wonder why this is..
wonders if person on here might be direct cause.. why my specific posts, unless ?

Anxiety.

Fight with my mother.

Being upset

My friend H created and added me onto a Whatsapp group she titled 'Besties 4eva'



only thing is there are 2 other girl that she added.


but 1 of them has been out of my life for about 2 years now.

Didnt bother telling me when she was expecting though the last tym i met her she told me how she had miscarriages ..


Didnt contact me despite knowing i was going through rough times..

I always went out of mt way to contact n check up on her. When she lost her brother then her mom i contacted her i met up wirh her.. Attended her wddding.. Kept in touch constantly when her mom was ill etc.

Yet since ovee 2 yrs ago she stopped contacting me after meeting me i disclosed diagnosis to her then may e that skeeved her out i dont know.

Then my phone got lost and my next one stopped working due to kids..
Had to get a new one so i lost her number

she had me on Facebook n cd have told me she was expecting and then had a baby n now the child is 1 or 2...


I found out late in 2019 thru my friend H who was surprised that i didn't know.

My friend H just mentioned it in passing like 'yeah but she is busy with her daughter ' and i was like what?? What daughter??

So i really dont want to be part of thisgroup. I congratulated My friend on her kid n mentioned that my phone stopped working n i lost all my contacts

she was like that explains it, i don't answer numbers i dont recognize.

Nothing more.

I felt quite hurt and angry as she didnt even acknowledge that she stopped contacting me. Or ask about me etc.

My other friends all reached out via FB and got my number...i am normally the one initiating things but that was a horrible tumultuous time.

I just feel in her heart and my heart she is no longer my friend - dont know why-
and I want to opt out of this group without offending anybody.

Which is impossible to do..

I just left that group.i dont need that girl in my life. However it appears, I don't need to justify myself to them. Im done with her. The other 2 were a part of my life and cared and vice versa.


This girl clearly cares the same way one would about a vaguely recognizable neighbour from the past.

anxiety

anxiety.

My cat, she was up to no good. They have a schedule power outage at midnight- noon tomorrow.

I can't stand snitches. This girl in the "give me your money" Facebook group responded to a girl's post asking for help paying her phone bill by saying she'd dug through her Facebook (creepy, get a hobby), found she was 16, you have to 18+ to post in this group, and therefore snitch-tagging the mods.

I responded to her comment with "Snitch." One word. Got a few likes, a heart, a few angry faces. Apparently you can PAY to get people banned from this group, so the girl I called a snitch paid $10 EACH to get me and another member of the group banned. (The other member actually was quite respectful, saying something like "How sad it is that you choose to focus on this right now") Within a few minutes, I'm permanently gone.

It's a good thing I can't remember her last name. I would've sent her a "6ix9ine? Why are you pretending to be a girl on Facebook?" message, but it's for the best that I leave her and the group alone. I don't wanna be anywhere where you can PAY to get people banned.

Mother.