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Stupid people moaning about football being treated to rugby.

I'm glad.

Wouldn't have gone to flag day anyway this year.

No desire to go to my CSC.

Hope the rugby fans stay safe.

Covid still exists. No vaccine yet.

Pizza. Can’t wait to have some pizza.

I have state reviews starting next week. Our beloved dog developed sudden awful symptoms and no vet would see him. But they think it is bufo toxicity. He is slowly coming out of it. I also have a lot of contacts and paperwork due before the 31st. I have no idea how this will all get done.

I don't like gangs who use knives cos it's violent and horrible. No 15 yo kid should be risking getting stabbed by a rival gang or for not being in a gang.

In America it's even worse cos they use guns.

Even in Nottingham it's like that with guns.

I'm glad I live somewhere now where the 'gangs' of teens do no more than laughing at passers by, having the occasional wrestling match/playfight, break social distancing rules and do a bit of graffiti. Even their graffiti is mostly just tags not threats or 'I hate so and so'.

They're annoying but they're innocently annoying.

I want white paint.

Might quit twitter for a bit.

Til Sunday. If we win on Sunday.

Trouble w that is then I'd be on here more often & people would be blunt with me about me 'not having a life'.

?????? I'm losing my cravings. And suddenly neglecting certain habits.

What did I turn into again?

Gained Number Post Count (1).
Lose Time (n).

Lose more time here - Updates at least once a week.

I just hope one good thing comes out of my existence on planet Earth. That is whats been on my mind lately, surely not everything is as bleak as they appear.

Love how if it rains we don't have to ruin our routines like we used to when it was before Covid.

"Right, it's raining, we can't do picnic"

YAY!

Lol

I'm thinking about how to earn more money and how to become happier.

How to painlessly de-mat a cat.

Powerful men don't 'get away with being creeps to young women'.

What's happening is this.

Anonymous stranger online. Doesn't state his age. States 'I want younger women and younger women only'. Doesn't state his potential mate's age.

People think of the worse case scenario and think 'creep'.

Rich/powerful guy. Scenario 1.

Is Wayne Lineker. Goes to a pool. Gets a bunch of young women who are a bit nervous of him and who are a bit drunk and a bit into his cash/brother's fame. Is in his 50s. Young women are in their late teens, early 20s. Everyone online thinks he's a creep to the point of twitter being full of people incorrectly calling him a paedo.

Rich/powerful guy. Scenario 2.

Hits on a woman slightly younger than him, within the 5 year gap. He's already in his mid 20s or 30s or older. She's into him. They hit it off. He doesn't get called a creep. Because the age gap is quite close.

Rich/powerful guy. Scenario 3.
Hits on a woman much younger than him. However, she already has grandkids and her kids have left home. She thinks 'what the heck, I'm old enough now to set boundaries' and dates him. He doesn't get called a creep. Because by that point she's mature and knows her own mind so it's as hard to groom a 50 yo as a 70 yo.

Nobody likes any 50 yo guy who hits on young women in their late teens because that's predatory behaviour and you deserve to be called a creep for it. If you're talking about scenario 2 or 3, it doesn't really matter that you're not rich and powerful. Just be specific about it.

And if it's just looking and they're over 18, you're probably just being aspie-honest by mentioning it. Most guys are into that. For looking/porn purposes only, not for hitting on. I like young men but I've learnt not to mention it on sites where there's NTs because they don't know the difference between 'that 18 yo celebrity is nice to look at' and 'I'm totally going to go over to the local sixth form to scope out talent and I've been living on my own and getting into and out of relationships for the last 10 years'.

(That's the other thing to remember - aspies are emotionally young for our age and aren't necessarily in the same life stage as our peers)

I wonder if the reason why I've read far more books than average on List Challenges and far less movies than average is because books are read alone and movies are watched (by NTs anyway) in a group.

I'm well aware if I talk about it anywhere other than on here or to my immediate family I'll be accused of 'humble bragging' but that's not what I'm doing. I just find it curious. I'm basically illiterate in movies.

I don't want this to come across as 'attention seeking' or 'compliment fishing' (it's not intended to be) so if you are irritated by those things please turn away now ~

I have been floating the idea recently that it would go unnoticed if I disappeared off the face of the earth. Unfortunately I have some reason to believe this is true, but what's really bugging me is how I feel about that. It's a tough feeling to understand, so anyways, that's what is on my mind.

They have reclosed the bars in my county. What a surprise. (not)