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10 Oct 2017, 2:38 am

Raleigh wrote:
It seems the only way to avoid these misunderstandings is to not speak at all.

No that's not a solution. There will always be misunderstandings in a place like this.



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10 Oct 2017, 2:38 am

i don't baguette it.


actually....i do(ugh)


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10 Oct 2017, 3:24 am

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biggles, i think raleigh was being straight with you, calling you a genius seriously and wondering why you put up with us. no insult intended.


I kinda still dont get this!? What am i putting up with? Do i come across as arrogant? Always thought us all as equals here.. No better no worse, all have our deficits but huge positives ( mine being probably oversensitive and not always understanding context)

Kinda makes me feel rather than part of something that we all have a general understanding and relation feels like i am again on the other side of the fence peering in.

Do you, as an intelligent person, find it frustrating to be surrounded by people who constantly ask dumb questions?

I did mean it literally, but joking too, in reference to all the silly questions we were asking about zombies/vampires.

It was meant in a lighthearted way.
I had nothing judgemental or critical in mind when I wrote it.

It seems the only way to avoid these misunderstandings is to not speak at all.


No!! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !
I dont, never have and never even crossed my mind a single time, seems you want to come back to it constantly despite me explaining it to you.. My gif seems to have triggered you in someway! As the irony is, that in itself was a light hearted bit of humour. Your response to said gif came across as patronizing and somewhat confrontational with a false ideology....

Maybe it is something on your conscious not mine that leads you to repeatedly make the same assumption and question!.

Again NO i do not get frustrated with the light humour, no i do not see them as ''stupid'' questions, No i do not see myself as any more or any less intelligent than anyone here! But seems you are fixated with such ideologies at present, not me as they have never entered my mind and i have answered such questions repeatedly now!

You come across as if i shouldn't be here, that am not wanted here hence my comment about feeling that i am now on the other side of the fence peeking in. A feeling of being ostracized if you will. Of not belonging here...


So NO is my answer to your remarks. And please remove from your mind that false impression! It makes me feel VERY uncomfortable!



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10 Oct 2017, 3:27 am

cathylynn wrote:
1Biggles1 wrote:
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biggles, i think raleigh was being straight with you, calling you a genius seriously and wondering why you put up with us. no insult intended.


I kinda still dont get this!? What am i putting up with? Do i come across as arrogant? Always thought us all as equals here.. No better no worse, all have our deficits but huge positives ( mine being probably oversensitive and not always understanding context)

Kinda makes me feel rather than part of something that we all have a general understanding and relation feels like i am again on the other side of the fence peering in.


you aren't arrogant. you're compassionate. i guess it's a stereotype that really smart people (such as you and me) would rather associate and find it easier to associate with folks "on their own level."

I'm smart enough to pick up irony.

Biggles: we're all equal.
Cathylynn: we are the really smart people here.

Should I be offended?


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10 Oct 2017, 3:31 am

1Biggles1 wrote:
Raleigh wrote:
1Biggles1 wrote:
cathylynn wrote:
biggles, i think raleigh was being straight with you, calling you a genius seriously and wondering why you put up with us. no insult intended.


I kinda still dont get this!? What am i putting up with? Do i come across as arrogant? Always thought us all as equals here.. No better no worse, all have our deficits but huge positives ( mine being probably oversensitive and not always understanding context)

Kinda makes me feel rather than part of something that we all have a general understanding and relation feels like i am again on the other side of the fence peering in.

Do you, as an intelligent person, find it frustrating to be surrounded by people who constantly ask dumb questions?

I did mean it literally, but joking too, in reference to all the silly questions we were asking about zombies/vampires.

It was meant in a lighthearted way.
I had nothing judgemental or critical in mind when I wrote it.

It seems the only way to avoid these misunderstandings is to not speak at all.


No!! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !
I dont, never have and never even crossed my mind a single time, seems you want to come back to it constantly despite me explaining it to you.. My gif seems to have triggered you in someway! As the irony is, that in itself was a light hearted bit of humour. Your response to said gif came across as patronizing and somewhat confrontational with a false ideology....

Maybe it is something on your conscious not mine that leads you to repeatedly make the same assumption and question!.

Again NO i do not get frustrated with the light humour, no i do not see them as ''stupid'' questions, No i do not see myself as any more or any less intelligent than anyone here! But seems you are fixated with such ideologies at present, not me as they have never entered my mind and i have answered such questions repeatedly now!

You come across as if i shouldn't be here, that am not wanted here hence my comment about feeling that i am now on the other side of the fence peeking in. A feeling of being ostracized if you will. Of not belonging here...


So NO is my answer to your remarks. And please remove from your mind that false impression! It makes me feel VERY uncomfortable!

You said you still didn't get it, so I thought you required further explanation.
I'm really confused.
When have I ever suggested I don't want you here?


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10 Oct 2017, 3:40 am

I was not triggered by the gif, or anything you wrote.
There was 'no triggering'.
Only not understanding your reaction.

But we're going around in circles.

So I'll shut up now.


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10 Oct 2017, 3:41 am

Seems we are both ''not getting'' something. Lets just leave it there eh? I feel the pin wheel is in effect. No point going over old grounds, doesnt do anyone any good, unless you wish to discuss it further?

Just a double misunderstanding me thinx.

I dont want you to feel bad and i dont want me to feel bad.



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10 Oct 2017, 3:42 am

Seems we both posted something of similar nature at the same time.



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10 Oct 2017, 3:44 am

For the record:

I like you.
I like talking to you.
I'm happy that you are here.
I don't think you're arrogant.
I'm perfectly rational.
I'm not fixated on anything, except maybe a few pesky songs. :)


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10 Oct 2017, 3:46 am

^Likewise...



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10 Oct 2017, 3:49 am

Well, what the f**k are we carrying on about?

If I ever change my mind and start to hate you I will let you know.

:mrgreen:


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10 Oct 2017, 4:50 am

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Well, what the f**k are we carrying on about?

If I ever change my mind and start to hate you I will let you know.

:mrgreen:

This was a joke.


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10 Oct 2017, 9:54 am

Good morning, everyone. I'm working on illustrations for my book. There's going to be five or six, one for each section.

Mum's feeling a little better. She frustrated that she can't do much.


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10 Oct 2017, 11:36 am

1Biggles1 wrote:
Raleigh wrote:
1Biggles1 wrote:
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biggles, i think raleigh was being straight with you, calling you a genius seriously and wondering why you put up with us. no insult intended.


I kinda still dont get this!? What am i putting up with? Do i come across as arrogant? Always thought us all as equals here.. No better no worse, all have our deficits but huge positives ( mine being probably oversensitive and not always understanding context)

Kinda makes me feel rather than part of something that we all have a general understanding and relation feels like i am again on the other side of the fence peering in.

Do you, as an intelligent person, find it frustrating to be surrounded by people who constantly ask dumb questions?

I did mean it literally, but joking too, in reference to all the silly questions we were asking about zombies/vampires.

It was meant in a lighthearted way.
I had nothing judgemental or critical in mind when I wrote it.

It seems the only way to avoid these misunderstandings is to not speak at all.


No!! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !
I dont, never have and never even crossed my mind a single time, seems you want to come back to it constantly despite me explaining it to you.. My gif seems to have triggered you in someway! As the irony is, that in itself was a light hearted bit of humour. Your response to said gif came across as patronizing and somewhat confrontational with a false ideology....

Maybe it is something on your conscious not mine that leads you to repeatedly make the same assumption and question!.

Again NO i do not get frustrated with the light humour, no i do not see them as ''stupid'' questions, No i do not see myself as any more or any less intelligent than anyone here! But seems you are fixated with such ideologies at present, not me as they have never entered my mind and i have answered such questions repeatedly now!

You come across as if i shouldn't be here, that am not wanted here hence my comment about feeling that i am now on the other side of the fence peeking in. A feeling of being ostracized if you will. Of not belonging here...


So NO is my answer to your remarks. And please remove from your mind that false impression! It makes me feel VERY uncomfortable!


i don't see where anyone even implied that you don't belong. you might want to examine why you're so concerned about that.