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30 May 2025, 5:57 pm

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Was sprawled out on the floor doing my drawing and really getting into my audiobook, when a pregnant spider scuttles across the floor near me, seemingly showing off her sack near her arse. I put her in a glass jar but don't have the balls to tip her outside in case she runs up my arm or something, so I'll have to get my partner to do it - without killing her of course. I'm just panicking about how she got pregnant, I mean there must be a male spider lurking around somewhere. :roll:


Some animals store sperm, allowing them to impregnate themselves when it suits them, instead of it being directly tied to when they mate.

I'm not sure if that's relevant to your spider, but if they're an example of that behaviour there wouldn't need to be a male nearby anymore.


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30 May 2025, 6:06 pm

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Tamaya wrote:
Was sprawled out on the floor doing my drawing and really getting into my audiobook, when a pregnant spider scuttles across the floor near me, seemingly showing off her sack near her arse. I put her in a glass jar but don't have the balls to tip her outside in case she runs up my arm or something, so I'll have to get my partner to do it - without killing her of course. I'm just panicking about how she got pregnant, I mean there must be a male spider lurking around somewhere. :roll:


Some animals store sperm, allowing them to impregnate themselves when it suits them, instead of it being directly tied to when they mate.

I'm not sure if that's relevant to your spider, but if they're an example of that behaviour there wouldn't need to be a male nearby anymore.


I hope you're right. It was quite small, not massive, but still looks like a British huntsman spider to me. Maybe it's a teenage pregnancy we're dealing with here. Either way, she is going to be bringing up her babies somewhere outside because we are not paid to be spider social workers.


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30 May 2025, 6:12 pm

I've got no problem with killing spiders. Most of the ones in my flat are spindly light ones that don't bother me though.


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30 May 2025, 6:15 pm

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I hope you're right. It was quite small, not massive, but still looks like a British huntsman spider to me. Maybe it's a teenage pregnancy we're dealing with here. Either way, she is going to be bringing up her babies somewhere outside because we are not paid to be spider social workers.


Apparently with the Huntsman Spider, the males die after they inseminate a female, so it seems like the father isn't a concern.


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30 May 2025, 6:24 pm

funeralxempire wrote:
Tamaya wrote:
I hope you're right. It was quite small, not massive, but still looks like a British huntsman spider to me. Maybe it's a teenage pregnancy we're dealing with here. Either way, she is going to be bringing up her babies somewhere outside because we are not paid to be spider social workers.


Apparently with the Huntsman Spider, the males die after they inseminate a female, so it seems like the father isn't a concern.


Huntsman seems to be a different type of spider in America, so you might be thinking of that type. In the UK huntsman spiders are those ugly things you get in your house, with small bodies but long legs, the type that is most harmless here yet I'm most terrified of.


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30 May 2025, 6:52 pm

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funeralxempire wrote:
Tamaya wrote:
I hope you're right. It was quite small, not massive, but still looks like a British huntsman spider to me. Maybe it's a teenage pregnancy we're dealing with here. Either way, she is going to be bringing up her babies somewhere outside because we are not paid to be spider social workers.


Apparently with the Huntsman Spider, the males die after they inseminate a female, so it seems like the father isn't a concern.


Huntsman seems to be a different type of spider in America, so you might be thinking of that type. In the UK huntsman spiders are those ugly things you get in your house, with small bodies but long legs, the type that is most harmless here yet I'm most terrified of.


I was referring to the Green Huntsman Spider, which is found in the UK but not in North America.

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Is your spider on this list? https://www.countryliving.com/uk/homes- ... nd-at-home


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30 May 2025, 7:04 pm

No, these are usually brown.


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30 May 2025, 7:07 pm

Every dead tree in the forest surrounding my house has hundreds of these living under the bark (especially the Ironbarks)
They're supposed to be harmless to humans, but my partner got pretty Ill after rescuing one from a hot bath before she got in.

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30 May 2025, 7:07 pm

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No, these are usually brown.


Might it be a harvestman, rather than a huntsman?

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30 May 2025, 7:31 pm

I'm gonna have nightmares after looking at these pictures

As for what made me unhappy, it was a beautiful day and I wasted most of it sleeping. I couldn't fall asleep last night so I slept all day today. F**king stupid


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30 May 2025, 8:03 pm

funeralxempire wrote:
Tamaya wrote:
No, these are usually brown.


Might it be a harvestman, rather than a huntsman?

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Not quite. If it was easy to post photos here then I would.


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31 May 2025, 2:55 am

I don't get many spiders here


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31 May 2025, 9:26 am

Anxiety


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31 May 2025, 12:47 pm

The cat peed on the quilt again. I tied the cat up again.I found that putting the shoe next to him made him stop barking and start sleeping.


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31 May 2025, 12:49 pm

Your cat barks? :?:


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31 May 2025, 6:59 pm

Seeing a dog tied to a bench in the rain.


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