racheypie666 wrote:
I f****d up.
I was on checkouts at work and I was serving a mum and her toddler. About halfway through scanning all their shopping, the kid began screaming/crying because he'd hit his hand on the side of the trolley or something. Anyway the mum tried to get him to stop crying, but he wouldn't, so she picked him up and held him on her hip, and went back to packing her shopping with only one of her hands available.
At this point I should have offered to help her pack. I didn't though because the little boy was
so loud and my brain was getting scrambled, the thought didn't enter my head.
In the end one of my colleagues came over and offered to help, and made a big show of it and gave me a look. At which point I felt pretty f*****g worthless.
I don't try to be mean or selfish and I come off that way anyway.
I don't really care what the customer thought of me because I will probably never see her again, but now that colleague thinks I'm an idiot and/or a selfish twat.
This was yesterday and it's still bothering me.
f**k.
The boy stopped crying as soon as he saw his sweets, btw.

Not really relevant but I hate when kids do that, terrible, harrowing screams of anguish and then ooh sweets, they just shut them off.
Your colleague sounds like a dick anyway, so no loss there.
Try not to let it bother you.
Easy to say, I know, and rather hypocritical, I suppose, because I'd be exactly the same.
I go through something like that every week when my vege order is delivered.
The lady is on the elderly side and she has to haul out and carry this big cool box, but the times I've gone out to help her have been so freaking
awkward, I just kind of hide now and let her carry it in.
I know, I'm being silly and I'll get over it.
Our neighbour just turned 97, her son came and asked me if I'd be able to go round every evening and help her get to bed.
(Luckily) mum was there and she declined for me, she has tact and social confidence I can only dream of. I am way too awkward to be any help to our neighbour, and I do feel guilty for that but it's still a fact.