kraftiekortie wrote:
Half the people who encounter me think I’m an absolute fool. They’re probably right. I bring it upon myself

Oh no, Kraftie, quite the opposite.
When you make a very wise statement there is nothing to add.
I often sit here reflecting upon what you said and think ' I wish I had said that - so eloquent '
Also, small talk is not very easy for a lot of us and this is seems to be essential for social exchanges.
This is a marvellous learning ground for us all.