There have been bad times/things, but (with the exception of my brother's problems) I don't know if I wish they'd never happened. If I hadn't had an horrific time at uni, then I never would have got my autism dx, and that would have caught up with me sooner or later. I have lost people I cared about but I think they were better off, so that's OK. The only thing I would cancel out are my brother's problems, because then he would be free. Instead he's feeling the consequences of decisions he made at 14-15, which honestly I was partially responsible for.
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