Marknis wrote:
cathylynn wrote:
Marknis wrote:
I am uncertain whether I should take a hiatus from this forum or leave permanently.
got any pros and cons?
The only pros I get here is that some will try to help me but the cons are that I have more detractors and even the people who try to help me start chiming in with the detractors. The real world I can atleast get away from my detractors here.
There are some people on WP who just love a good argument or debate. They are not really interested in your pain but want to solve problems because this is the way they are wired. I am not sure it is always personal.
We all have different views and it is so difficult to know what is helpful for you because none of us really know each other that well. We are words on a page. An imaginary avatar at the end of an electronic communication.
I would like to see you stay. When you feel like others are not being kind just come over here - this is lovely thread frequented with the most compassionate people. There is an unsaid rule on here that says we will be kind to each other. Accepting.