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03 Feb 2024, 5:37 pm

It's all about self regulation, really. :roll:

Enablers are basically those who tries to make regulation easier or even remove them from the process for others, but do not let others grow and learn any of that.
And this can actually groom people either into spoiled brats or someone easily exploited.

Neglectful ones are those who do not teach or aide in regulation at all and left others in their own devices.
It doesn't matter the consequences. There is no guide in this one. Between the two, this may be 'ideal' in a sense that nothing is better than bad.

And abusive ones are those who triggers dysregulation and expects others to self regulate on top of that.
But how does someone who is easily triggered distinguish THIS from those who tried to help others grow yet does not realize the lacking prerequisites of what they're teaching?


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03 Feb 2024, 6:04 pm

I haven't chewed a cork in years


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03 Feb 2024, 10:09 pm

It will be nice to get out of my stuffy apartment for the day, tomorrow. Away from the tattlers and at the flea market where the action is.


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03 Feb 2024, 10:16 pm

I should go to the flea market, I haven't been in years.


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03 Feb 2024, 10:27 pm

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I should go to the flea market, I haven't been in years.


It's worth it. I get my own table for $26 and I'm away from the slums for 9 hours.


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03 Feb 2024, 10:36 pm

CockneyRebel wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
I should go to the flea market, I haven't been in years.


It's worth it. I get my own table for $26 and I'm away from the slums for 9 hours.


I should look into selling there, I was mostly just wanting to look for a few different Hot Wheels castings (to steal wings from, to put on other Hot Wheels cars).


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04 Feb 2024, 12:44 am

Very depressed. Not getting along with someone and i dont feel very believed by others as to whats been happening. I just want to runaway from everything.



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04 Feb 2024, 4:24 am

hapyecakehapyepie wrote:
Very depressed. Not getting along with someone and i dont feel very believed by others as to whats been happening. I just want to runaway from everything.


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04 Feb 2024, 6:30 am

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Very depressed. Not getting along with someone and i dont feel very believed by others as to whats been happening. I just want to runaway from everything.


Sweet Pea hugs


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04 Feb 2024, 6:33 am

I don't even know what the temperature is outside. I can't see it on my widget. I guess that I'll have to go to The Weather Network site and find out.


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04 Feb 2024, 6:40 am

I love the flea market me


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04 Feb 2024, 7:01 am

I love stealing people's catchphrases me.


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04 Feb 2024, 7:32 am

I've noticed that when I drink coffee I pretend to have a stiff upper lip and The World Keeps Going Round by The Kinks becomes my theme song.

I notice that when I drink tea, I listen to my German music and I'm more in touch with my sweet, tender emotions.


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04 Feb 2024, 8:11 am

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I love stealing people's catchphrases me.


Cheeky


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04 Feb 2024, 8:12 am

Is "fan" short for "fanatic" or are they two completely separate things


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04 Feb 2024, 9:10 am

By the lost gods make up your damn mind already... :x

Is this normal to this job, I wonder??...


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