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Raleigh
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08 Mar 2018, 3:17 pm

Was just trying to understand the psychology of hate because it seems so incomprehensible??

So incomprehensible that the only logical conclusion I can come up with is I am the cause of it.

Yet I know that's not true.
People are responsible for their own thoughts and actions.

Still, what a f*****g waste.


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08 Mar 2018, 3:59 pm

I go off on tangents like that sometimes; I start thinking that everything is my fault/I should be blamed for everything that goes wrong.

It's an old habit, from when I was young.


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08 Mar 2018, 4:31 pm

Thank you for clearing that up Mr Raleigh.

Of course I know you are queer - you have mentioned your partner etc.
(this is why you were offered an 'inappropriate' bum squeeze other wise it would have just been a bum squeeze).

So there is history with some people on here - it is part of life and difficult to avoid all at all time.

And you are right - it is their thought and feelings which belong to them.

Fear usually causes hate - this along side ignorance is a recipe for pure nastiness.

Glad you know how many of us love you on here - love trumps hate. :heart:



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08 Mar 2018, 4:36 pm

I'm trying to learn how to love me.


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08 Mar 2018, 4:47 pm

Kuraudo7777 wrote:
I'm trying to learn how to love me.


You do it the same way you love everyone else only more :)



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08 Mar 2018, 4:50 pm

^That seems backwards to me, even though I know it's right.


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08 Mar 2018, 4:52 pm

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08 Mar 2018, 4:56 pm

^^I see it as looking after yourself emotionally like we try to do physically.

If we are physically fit we are more able to look after others.
The same goes for mentally and emotionally.



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08 Mar 2018, 5:15 pm

I don't treat myself very well. :(


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08 Mar 2018, 5:31 pm

Kuraudo7777 wrote:
I don't treat myself very well. :(


But you are learning more about where this comes from and how it has been a long standing habit.

This in itself will help to turn it around.

It all takes time Kura my lovely.



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08 Mar 2018, 5:44 pm

I guess so...

Pokemon Soulsilver is a ridiculously rare game, and it 'only' came out eight years ago. I'm trying to find a copy for a reasonable price, but no luck so far.


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08 Mar 2018, 5:50 pm

I think you need to go out for a walk, take a bike ride, or go for a hike in the woods. I think you're being in the computer for far too long, Miss Kuraudo. I think that's the main problem you're having.

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08 Mar 2018, 5:59 pm

^ I think that's great advice for everyone.
Nature is very healing.


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08 Mar 2018, 6:09 pm

The power of nature.

At the end of my garden I have a big field.
Beyond this are hills and trees.
I get to walk around the green field every day.
It has healed me many times over.



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08 Mar 2018, 8:28 pm

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08 Mar 2018, 11:43 pm

Hullo peoples.