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Him:
I have excluded (clerk( from this email because she was extremely upset after you met with her to sign the Notice of Change. She advised me you snapped at her, snatched the Notice from her and stormed out. I’m sorry, but I cannot take on this matter again and ask (clerk) to work on this file and with you again unless you provide her with a sincere apology. We understand that family matters are frustrating and upsetting, but we do not allow our client’s to take their frustrations out on us, whom, by all intentions and purposes, are assisting and representing you.
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Me:
???
I did not lash out at (clerk). She asked me ar you sure and I said yes.
The conversation went like this:
Her: Sign here date here
Me: Oh whats the date? March the second ? Lemme see.
I took out my phone
Me; oh march the fifth
Her: before yoy sign are u sure of this?
Me: yes.
Her/ she let out a breath
Me: is that all? Ok thank you
And left
You can also ask the lady at desk i was v nice n calm n complimented her hairstyle and asked her how to achieve it
I cant believe she said i lashed out at hwr. Ok thanks
The fact that (clerk) could have read something extra eous into that has changed my mind
Sorry but i have dealt with two faced women before called XHs mother and I can promise you i do not lie
If i had lashed out i wd say so as I do not lie
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Him:
I was not there, so I am not privy to what happened. I can only advise you that (clerk) was upset with the exchange, which she reported to me. It could be possible that she misinterpreted your tone and reaction. My point being that it is important to us that our client’s do not take their frustrations out on us.
(I deleted a paragraph which refers to XHs evilness)
In any event, if you are uncomfortable returning to work with us, that is certainly within your discretion. I wish you all the best in your matter and hope you find someone who believes in your position as much as I do.
Me (i was super duper crying at this point when i wrote this back so thats why its so lame):
I have nothing against apology as u can see i apologized to u by emailing as I am not an angry arrogant or lying person
Everyone thinks so because of my face thats why (mediator) believed (XH) not me because his face is normal
I am sorry my face is like that
Bye
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Take defeat as an urge to greater effort.
-Napoleon Hill
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