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What does someone tell you you are bad at?
the liberties they take, i wouldn't put that like that, it's the passif-aggressif approach, i didn't see that early but there's that dead end street for you, the MIL was best at that, i saw the oldests sil talking like that too, (ignoring hubs growing habit of that)
always talking in negatively positioned questions, "you never do that?" sort of assumptions
btw questions are a tool of retarding everything imo, there's always going to more, and more silly questions
some silly theory of me: there's two sorts of people, those who see and hear (another spectrum?)
and those who have to be told, they see words as being truther than what you see and hear and feel
actually the education system is for them, learn by heart, repeat often for words becoming facts,
their speach is designed to avoid thought, they'll put their internal dialog on you if there's nothing else left and always,
always speak through silence even when pointing out how silent it is for lengths
with friends you can share a silence
most others want to drill holes in your brain with words
(for attention and reassurance? but how can i give that if you're bombing me?)
ohoh
same question