The biggest difficulty in my life is that everything is designed with the assumption that you already know everything. I don't just need a book of social rules, I need a book of everything. The first time I went to a restaurant without my parents, they had to walk me through how the bill works and how you sign for it and leave the tip and everything, nothing about it was at all intuitive, but they just expect you to know how it works. Today I tried to buy a stapler and a box of staples, but they told me they weren't compatible--well they should've f**king made that clear, shouldn't they. Nowhere on the stapler did it say what kind of staples it would need, but apparently everyone has to be an expert on staplers in order to live life. If you compiled a book on all the things I've ever been expected to know that I haven't, it would probably break your back, and yet everyone is supposed to instinctively know all those things, and even weirder, it seems like most people do instinctively know them, or have exclusive access to the secret database of how the world works.
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Diagnosed ASD, ADHD, Tourettes age 5
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