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16 Jun 2018, 2:29 pm
SaveFerris wrote:
CloudClimber wrote:
I don’t know where I would post this so here you go..
What are your thoughts on this - you report someone for harassment and that person later tells you “I’m not harassing you”
What are your thoughts on this - you report someone for harassment and that person later tells you “I’m not harassing you”
my thoughts - ignore them , don't reply - I didn't want to speak to you anyway
It’s my manager. Same one that recently told me “hope you are doing well”. Same one that tried to fire me for having a panic attack (because of him)... I could keep going.
16 Jun 2018, 2:32 pm
16 Jun 2018, 2:32 pm
CloudClimber wrote:
SaveFerris wrote:
CloudClimber wrote:
I don’t know where I would post this so here you go..
What are your thoughts on this - you report someone for harassment and that person later tells you “I’m not harassing you”
What are your thoughts on this - you report someone for harassment and that person later tells you “I’m not harassing you”
my thoughts - ignore them , don't reply - I didn't want to speak to you anyway
It’s my manager. Same one that recently told me “hope you are doing well”. Same one that tried to fire me for having a panic attack (because of him)... I could keep going.
If its your boss you can only really ignore him or report him to corporate and expect to not be employed...
Try and find another job in the meantime too.
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16 Jun 2018, 2:38 pm
16 Jun 2018, 2:48 pm
Dragnet wrote:
CloudClimber wrote:
SaveFerris wrote:
CloudClimber wrote:
I don’t know where I would post this so here you go..
What are your thoughts on this - you report someone for harassment and that person later tells you “I’m not harassing you”
What are your thoughts on this - you report someone for harassment and that person later tells you “I’m not harassing you”
my thoughts - ignore them , don't reply - I didn't want to speak to you anyway
It’s my manager. Same one that recently told me “hope you are doing well”. Same one that tried to fire me for having a panic attack (because of him)... I could keep going.
If its your boss you can only really ignore him or report him to corporate and expect to not be employed...
Try and find another job in the meantime too.
I have reported a few times. Then submitted asd and adhd accommodations which they ignored of course. They won’t fire me unless I do something blatantly wrong. But then again my manager has lied etc and already tried to fire me for reacting to his ridiculous behavior.
16 Jun 2018, 3:19 pm
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16 Jun 2018, 3:20 pm
16 Jun 2018, 3:26 pm
ZZZTired
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16 Jun 2018, 3:30 pm
16 Jun 2018, 3:33 pm
16 Jun 2018, 3:35 pm
16 Jun 2018, 3:36 pm
Raleigh wrote:
blooiejagwa wrote:
Dragnet wrote:
Raleigh wrote:
Ego is your sense of self.
It is how you make yourself unique and separate from everyone else in the world, by identifying as you.
The danger is that you can make yourself too unique.
This happens in one of 2 ways:
1. I'm awesome and the rest of you all suck, therefore I deserve special treatment
Or
2. I suck and the rest of you are all awesome, therefore I deserve special treatment.
It is how you make yourself unique and separate from everyone else in the world, by identifying as you.
The danger is that you can make yourself too unique.
This happens in one of 2 ways:
1. I'm awesome and the rest of you all suck, therefore I deserve special treatment
Or
2. I suck and the rest of you are all awesome, therefore I deserve special treatment.
I have thought about this and I don't think I am one but might objectively be two but not too much cause I obviously feel that the law implies to me and was very up front about that even when breaking (drug) laws. I think everyone is subject to the same laws but also the same freedoms such as not being spied on in the privacy of your own home. So I suppose my ego is healthy? Would doubting yourself being awesome while maintaining equality for all a healthy ego? I feel like two is the side effect of having a low self-esteem, thoughts?
Yeah low self esteem means u prioritize others way too much n give importance to them more than what is healthy. So I don’t understand point #2
For example:
"Everyone is more important and worthy than me, therefore I deserve special treatment.
I deserve to be downtrodden and taken advantage of, but other people don't.
In fact, I will get angry when I see other people being treated badly, but I will tolerate bad treatment directed at myself."
Or
"I always f**k everything up, therefore I deserve special treatment. I will isolate myself from everyone to save them from my horrible presence, and the world will be much better off without me. Everyone else can communicate effectively, and if they can't I will forgive them, but my communication errors can never be forgiven."
I don't relate to one worded this way but I relate to two somewhat more but not all the way to the absolute extreme. I do feel like sparing others from my poor communication at times but not always. I also feel like its a free country and if I want to isolate myself, I should have the right to do so, albeit being spied on but whatever
I do feel forgiven for my errors in communication, what hurts for me and my struggle with autism is such errors in communication shouldn't have existed in the first place. However, I suppose being an autistic community people relate to different aspects of social malfunction, something I rarely considered for years when I was on the site believe it or not...
16 Jun 2018, 3:41 pm
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16 Jun 2018, 3:44 pm
16 Jun 2018, 3:44 pm
Raleigh wrote:
Here, people are described by their class.
Like bogan, tradie or bigwig.
Like bogan, tradie or bigwig.
16 Jun 2018, 3:48 pm
Raleigh wrote:
^ I was just trying to think of some extreme examples to try and make it clearer.
Fail.
Fail.
So does this hurt on a,
A. Social fail on a surface level
B. A social defeat on a social shame level
C. Set sail for fail
D. All the above
