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I have fears, but no real phobias.

Do you fear heights, even if you're protected from falling?

I can`t help stop the reflex of strong discomfort even if I am on the other side of a window. My phobia is heights.

Do you find it challenging to be patient with people who are afraid of things that are not dangerous?

No, not at all. I respect them.

Kraftie, why do you think I personally attack you? Yesterday it happened 2 times.

I was complimenting you yesterday. I had several severely abusive males in my life and find it hard trusting and feeling comfortable around males. Same as you, I communicate better with females. Was not an insult but a compliment. It hurts me deeply that you see me as some kind of bully or someone who has mean intent towards you. I have none. Please don't read any mean intent in my messages, I have none. Might tease, use humor, am sometimes a bit naive in my way of communicating, but please don't take it too seriously or look to deeply into it. Really feel awful that you see me as some kind of evil person.


Do you misinterpret things a lot?

I don’t feel you’re evil, Sir.

I just don’t want people to think I’m here on WP to flirt with women. I’m here to have fun in a nonsexual way.

Isabella and I are friends. She feels you are implying that we are “more than friends.” This upsets her because she feels people get the wrong idea, that she’s less than what she actually is. She’s a virtuous person, and we are friends, not any more than that.

I have nice friendships with men and women here that doesn’t involve flirting at all. It involves being a real friend.

We might kid around...but that’s the extent of it.

I don't think that anyone hates you.

I don't play many video games, but I like The Sims 4.

Same question.

I haven`t played very many games but the of the ones I have played I liked Syberia, Sly Cooper and Skyrim the most.

Oh sorry : Same question

I haven't played very many video games since the early 1980s.

I once played bowling on WII in Best Buy maybe three years ago.


Video games from the 1980s, or afterwards?


By the way: It is impossible for me to "hate" a person, unless that person makes me, say, lose my job or something. LLW hasn't made me lose my job, or punched me in the face for no reason---so there's no rational reason for me to hate him. I understand I haven't gone through the same things as LLW, and probably have gone through things with less intensity. One should not be blamed for that. It's just the way it is. I have to do better at being more sensitive to what others have gone through in life.

As an Aspie/autistic person, I sometimes have difficulty telling when a person is joking. Isabella is a person of dignity, and does not want any impression that she is less than an upstanding person. She doesn't like jokes which paint her in a light which might make her seem "less" than what she is. Please accept that she is sensitive of how people view her. This is because of what she has gone through in her life. Please accept that people have different reactions to things. Because they are individuals with different experiences.

It took me a long time to learn this.

I hope the pain goes away soon. My intention wasn't to cause pain.

It was the same intention people had who wanted to let me know about something. Sometimes, people have had to be direct with me and risk offending me in order to give me the proper advice on things. I didn't feel all that great after someone lectured me. I felt pain. I even felt angry. But, after I thought about it, I realize that the person giving the advice had good intentions.

You did nothing which should cause you pain. All you have to do, my friend, is listen to what people say. And I think you are doing that now.

Hmmm.

Do virtual hugs make you feel just as awkward as an actual hug?

Worse. I feel ill when I read the hugs thread.
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