The only people I know who are assessed with ASD or who fit the profile are children, and even that was many years ago.
I'm in a family of very dominant, uber-feminine NT women, and I have lots of cousins but they're spread all around the world. My father and his father were definitely somewhere on the spectrum but we didn't have a word for it during their lives, nor did I identify then.
That's fun about the history buff at your church. I miss church.
Do you have any of your old toys from childhood?
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