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04 Jul 2018, 3:50 am
04 Jul 2018, 3:54 am
04 Jul 2018, 4:01 am
Mr Z's,
I would be rejoicing if I had your dream.
Those parts are telling you something and it is worth taking notice.
Having different parts of yourself is not an indication of schizoid tendencies.
A lot of us have different parts which are in conflict - you hear it all the time when people say that they are in two minds or they can't make a decision.
Take care of both parts Mr Z's as they are you 
04 Jul 2018, 4:03 am
04 Jul 2018, 4:09 am
Raleigh wrote:
Temeraire wrote:
Sorry Mr Raleigh, I have been busy walking the dog and trying to keep the worst of my anxiety at bay with distractions.
I have a medical assessment to determine if I will get any extra help.
It is inhumane and disrespectful at best so I know what is coming.
My friend will be here shortly to take me there so I have a warm support.
I have a medical assessment to determine if I will get any extra help.
It is inhumane and disrespectful at best so I know what is coming.
My friend will be here shortly to take me there so I have a warm support.
I hope, then, that it passes in the blink of an eye and is successful for you.
Ah thanks love.
I keep seeing that skull flash it's eyes and laugh, and imagine it to be the assessor.
So I am trying to counteract it with images of nicer things - like my chocolate desert I have in the fridge for later.
I will be ok, I have a lovely caring friend who is due very shortly. I will ride the wave.
04 Jul 2018, 7:05 am
04 Jul 2018, 7:08 am
Not my picture, but this is what I saw early this Fourth of July morning: momma Merganser with four ducklings in tow.
04 Jul 2018, 9:21 am
04 Jul 2018, 9:38 am
Raleigh wrote:
Kiprobalhato wrote:
is anyone else here familiar with the pain of seeing someone you love so profoundly struggle with suicidal thoughts and behaviors and saying how they're unloved, and nobody cares?
i want to convince.
i want to convince.
Maybe you could gently challenge their thoughts with logic of the "I would not be here for you if I didn't care" variety.
Maybe they need to hear it repeatedly in order for it to get in over the walls.
My partner used to bring me things like a small pebble or a shell and leave it to "watch over me"
Weird, but it spoke of love to me.
But I'm also autistic.
People in that frame of mind are basically in the dark and you have keep reassuring them until they regain confidence in their life. Need the positive to outweigh the negative. How many times do people tear down the walls they build? Has to be rare. Usually someone else does it.
I was pulling weeds and pulled poison ivy and was like I just pulled poison ivy. Thought it was baby tree because there were a bunch of those too but the whole red vine thing kinda proved that wrong.. Oh look there’s more. But it’s poison ivy.. hmm too late might as well keep going
scrubbed and showered though already and took allergy med cuz all the pollens 
And I’m worn out and it’s hot and work was long and 
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04 Jul 2018, 12:04 pm
04 Jul 2018, 1:26 pm
Raleigh wrote:
fluffysaurus wrote:
Raleigh wrote:
Liberating.
I have found being cut off by my friends and sister has been liberating once I got used to it.
It's the parents that I'm struggling with. I'm used to disappointing them and I'm fine with that. It's the not telling them when they are completely in the wrong that's hard. My Mum will cry and BOTH her husbands will blame me and I hate arguments.
My mother added so much extra freaking stress to my life I had to let her go.
04 Jul 2018, 1:45 pm
Temeraire wrote:
Raleigh wrote:
Temeraire wrote:
Sorry Mr Raleigh, I have been busy walking the dog and trying to keep the worst of my anxiety at bay with distractions.
I have a medical assessment to determine if I will get any extra help.
It is inhumane and disrespectful at best so I know what is coming.
My friend will be here shortly to take me there so I have a warm support.
I have a medical assessment to determine if I will get any extra help.
It is inhumane and disrespectful at best so I know what is coming.
My friend will be here shortly to take me there so I have a warm support.
I hope, then, that it passes in the blink of an eye and is successful for you.
Ah thanks love.
I keep seeing that skull flash it's eyes and laugh, and imagine it to be the assessor.
So I am trying to counteract it with images of nicer things - like my chocolate desert I have in the fridge for later.
I will be ok, I have a lovely caring friend who is due very shortly. I will ride the wave.
04 Jul 2018, 2:31 pm
04 Jul 2018, 3:46 pm
fluffysaurus wrote:
Temeraire wrote:
Raleigh wrote:
Temeraire wrote:
Sorry Mr Raleigh, I have been busy walking the dog and trying to keep the worst of my anxiety at bay with distractions.
I have a medical assessment to determine if I will get any extra help.
It is inhumane and disrespectful at best so I know what is coming.
My friend will be here shortly to take me there so I have a warm support.
I have a medical assessment to determine if I will get any extra help.
It is inhumane and disrespectful at best so I know what is coming.
My friend will be here shortly to take me there so I have a warm support.
I hope, then, that it passes in the blink of an eye and is successful for you.
Ah thanks love.
I keep seeing that skull flash it's eyes and laugh, and imagine it to be the assessor.
So I am trying to counteract it with images of nicer things - like my chocolate desert I have in the fridge for later.
I will be ok, I have a lovely caring friend who is due very shortly. I will ride the wave.
Thanks Fluffy, she certainly made it more tolerable.
And to top it off she took me for an Indian banquet lunch. I am so full.
04 Jul 2018, 3:49 pm
04 Jul 2018, 6:17 pm
Rearrange these letters to form words.
1.PNEIS
2.BUTTSXE
Did you get spine and subtext ?
Yeah.....Neither did I 
