I have a stoic nature, hate talking about myself in a positive manner and I hate complaining. Can't talk about my horrible past, like some others seem to do constantly because it triggers my PTSD tremendously. I just can't. Also, it works differently for men. Often times, men get valued for their strength, so, when men talk about things that happened in my past, they get seen differently. Even though people respect it, it has a negative effect on the value of a man. The strength is gone. Compare it to a woman, who often gets seen as stronger for going through what I have been through. Really strange how that works. Best thing is to stay quiet and stoic. Makes me sad though.
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