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29 Sep 2010, 5:37 pm

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A lot of people believe it, though. It's not entirely wrong, either. Just look at the women that are all over TV. If she's the least bit chubby, she's dressed in loose fitting and unflattering clothes.


Your very rite but I think fatter people may have an easier time than skinnier people. Skinny people belive that they have to stay thin in order to be liked; they may have self-esteem issues & be obsessed with staying thin. They could have eating disorders as well. Some skinny people would have major problems in life if they became fat


Yes, we have such an easier time. :roll: Fat people get charged more for clothes because of extra fabric, we're ignored and mocked in the dating environment, people stare at us in discontent, I can't enjoy ice cream without someone telling me that I shouldn't be eating it. I only eat one dessert a week but just because I'm bigger, people assume I pig out all the time.


Skinny people have it very difficult sometimes. They may only have shallow superficial friends who only like em as long as they are skinny. Least you are able to eat when you want. Some skinny people have eating disorders like anorexia & bulimia witch can be very horrible. I've known some skinny women who had major self-esteem issues & would feel like passing out sometimes because they were hungry but wouldn't eat. You are very lucky that you accepted that you are fat instead of falling into that


Who says I'm able to eat what I want? I get judged for it because I'm already big. I have to deprive myself of foods I love just to obtain a body I can be happy with. Knowing that I'm fat and accepting it are two different things. I don't accept it, that's why I'm always dieting and usually still feel hungry after meals because I'm afraid that I'll overeat and get even fatter and less attractive than I am now. I hate my body, I feel like it's the source of all my problems. I feel that if I had a better body, I could wear better clothes and be more attractive all around. :/

Lecks - I'm not celebrating that I'm fat. I hate it. :evil:



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29 Sep 2010, 5:40 pm

Erisad wrote:
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A lot of people believe it, though. It's not entirely wrong, either. Just look at the women that are all over TV. If she's the least bit chubby, she's dressed in loose fitting and unflattering clothes.


Your very rite but I think fatter people may have an easier time than skinnier people. Skinny people belive that they have to stay thin in order to be liked; they may have self-esteem issues & be obsessed with staying thin. They could have eating disorders as well. Some skinny people would have major problems in life if they became fat


Yes, we have such an easier time. :roll: Fat people get charged more for clothes because of extra fabric, we're ignored and mocked in the dating environment, people stare at us in discontent, I can't enjoy ice cream without someone telling me that I shouldn't be eating it. I only eat one dessert a week but just because I'm bigger, people assume I pig out all the time.


I'm what society calls "fat" but I got it made! I always buy the cutest of clothes, I don't really date anymore because of my male friends, I enjoy the food I like in moderation, and no I don't pig out(I've gained 10 pounds :( but will shed it off to get back to 220.)



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29 Sep 2010, 5:42 pm

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How about we don't celebrate extremes and celebrate staying healthy instead :?:


I like it!


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29 Sep 2010, 5:43 pm

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Lecks - I'm not celebrating that I'm fat. I hate it. :evil:


Are you eating healthy and exercising?


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29 Sep 2010, 5:56 pm

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Lecks - I'm not celebrating that I'm fat. I hate it. :evil:


Are you eating healthy and exercising?


Yes, as healthy as the college meal plan will let me eat. It's just taking forever. I've wasted my entire youth being fat and I hate myself for it. I just had to be unattractive when it matters most. After I graduate college, it'll be too late. I'll be too busy working to pay off debts to even have time to socialize with anyone. :wall:

xxZeromancerlovexx - I can't afford the cutest of clothes, I lost my f*****g job. You know you suck when McDonald's doesn't want you anymore. Even with your weight gain, you're still lighter than I am. Not by much but still... :(



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29 Sep 2010, 6:13 pm

If you're eating healthy and exercising, then celebrate that you're HEALTHY. The weight will come off by itself if there's no underlying medical condition.


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29 Sep 2010, 6:23 pm

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If you're eating healthy and exercising, then celebrate that you're HEALTHY. The weight will come off by itself if there's no underlying medical condition.


The school meal plan hardly has anything healthy. It's either "fried and fatty" or "vegetarian." There's nothing for those who like meat but don't want it fried. Unless you were to eat a salad everyday (that they pump with disgusting pesticides), you would have to have something fried at some point. D:

That's what I'm worried about. My roommate is getting tested for Cushing's syndrome and she thinks I may have it too. I don't have the funds to get anything treated right now. If I had it, I would have to get surgery to have the tumor lopped off the pituitary gland. I don't want to get cut open. It'd cost more money to have me put under so it's either cough up the funds or be in excruciating pain. I hate doctors. They probably wouldn't want to help me anyway. They want to keep their patients unhealthy as long as possible so they keep getting our money. That's their source of income and why so many patients die in their "care." I don't want to have them responsible for my life, the money-grubbing bastards would be the end of me. >.<



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29 Sep 2010, 6:32 pm

So eat vegetarian until you can afford some meat that's not covered in grease.


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29 Sep 2010, 6:36 pm

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So eat vegetarian until you can afford some meat that's not covered in grease.


They use some pesticides and steroid stuff all over their veggies which makes them taste more bitter than they're supposed too. How could they ruin broccoli like that? I pretty much eat really small portions of whatever I can swallow. I'm hungry again in about an hour after a meal. Sometimes my stomach growls loudly and my friends look at me funny and ask, "didn't you just eat?" I did but not enough. >.<



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29 Sep 2010, 10:10 pm

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If you're eating healthy and exercising, then celebrate that you're HEALTHY. The weight will come off by itself if there's no underlying medical condition.


I agree with that. I want a partner who's healthy NOT skinny. I couldn't get my ex to understand it thou. But anyway when I was little I was very skinny & I was teased for being thin. I was beat-up regularly because I was too skronney(SP?) to defend myself. I got bullied less after I gained weight. When you say that skinny people have it easier than fat people; you are full of sh!t. I'm overweight & I feel much better with myself now


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29 Sep 2010, 10:15 pm

You know what? I'm tired of defending myself about this. What do you want me to say? I'm a fat b***h. There, happy?



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29 Sep 2010, 10:18 pm

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You know what? I'm tired of defending myself about this. What do you want me to say? I'm a fat b***h. There, happy?


I want you to start tying to improve yourself instead of playing the victim.


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29 Sep 2010, 10:23 pm

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You know what? I'm tired of defending myself about this. What do you want me to say? I'm a fat b***h. There, happy?


I want you to start tying to improve yourself instead of playing the victim.


Why do you think I'm losing weight for? That's an improvement. D:


Geeze, I feel like I'm getting attacked here.



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29 Sep 2010, 11:30 pm

Erisad wrote:
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You know what? I'm tired of defending myself about this. What do you want me to say? I'm a fat b***h. There, happy?


I want you to start tying to improve yourself instead of playing the victim.


Why do you think I'm losing weight for? That's an improvement. D:


Geeze, I feel like I'm getting attacked here.


I'm NOT trying to attack you but I don't think things will suddenly get better if you magically lost a lot of weight. There's other steps you can take to try to work on your self-esteem & other issues. Losing weight & trying to be healthy is a very good start thou. I should try to lose some weight & be healthier myself so I don't have to buy new clothes for winter :lol:


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29 Sep 2010, 11:41 pm

I think nice people rule. Or maybe people who are comfortable with who they are. I'm not sure it's easy to be either extreme whether large or thin. I'm 6'3" and weigh 145lbs at this moment. I can't gain weight to save my life, and whenever I'm around somebody they act like I have anorexia. I remember growing up and being punished for not being able to finish my food (my parents would try giving me very large portions) or having friends constantly go um... why don't you eat something? When I do eat... I just have a rapid metabolism (I've tried eating more and consequently lose weight... what?). Honestly it's not that cool to be this thin any more than being large would be. I'm constantly told that I'm too thin not to mention I don't have the toughest looking exterior... so it's not like I'm a dire chick magnet (Nice face though :)). Also being thin can suck in the energy department. I'm pretty tired most of the time... and get exhausted while doing much anything physical. Society may want thin but I think there's a point of thin that becomes border-line screwed up and I crossed it. I'm not thin to the extent of looking like a walking corpse but I'm fairly close. I have to wear baggy clothing just to feel like I look near normal, but still it sucks to feel like your ribs are painfully constricting when you breath or feeling too frail to be conscious at times.

Anyway the truth of the word would be tyrants rule... but whatever. I'm fine not ruling and being myself :)



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30 Sep 2010, 6:04 am

I am skinny but I really don't think about it that much. I am also short. So it is probably lucky I am skinny.