ASPartOfMe wrote:
Autistic people the vast majority of the time expect a bad outcome.
Autistic people way too often are NT wanabbes.
Autistic people way too often view NT’s as socially skilled extraverts whose sole purpose in life is being popular.
In general getting diagnosed very early in life leads to not bieng as independent as possible.
In general getting diagnosed well into adulthood leads to being overly cynical.
The ratio of male to female autistics is most likely a lot less then the 4 males to every female diagnosis ratio.
The Autistic population are less straight and cisgender then the general population.
Kinda the same for me.
Except that the first three I didn't "learn" from WP because they are all what I would have guessed was the case before I joined WP. Ofcourse autistics want to be NT (at least at job interviews, if not all of the time), and view NTs as social butterflies (because comparatively speaking they are).
That there are both upsides and downsides to both early and late diagnosis was a revelation (3 and 4). Some late diagnosers become successful but at the price of become very emotionally wounded and perpetually bitter and angry.
The sex ratio does seem to be somewhat more even on WP than we have been told should be the case.
And before I joined WP I never suspected that aspies and autistics overlapped with the LBGT community any more than do NTs, but apparently ASD folks are indeed more likely to be LBGT than NTs.