Marknis wrote:
SaveFerris wrote:
Marknis wrote:
SaveFerris wrote:
Marknis wrote:
Why do people tell me to wait for a girlfriend when I am 30?
Maybe it is in the hope that you might feel better about yourself ? In my experience when you are looking for a GF it's very difficult , most of my GF's have come about by chance when I wasn't looking. My theory is that maybe I came across as desperate when I was looking - not an attractive quality.
A few told me to wait because they thought I was "immature" and that really offended me. Others said I had to wait for "God's plan" to happen. One of my aunts' even told me God was still writing my love story and I just had to roll my eyes at that.
If it was a possible partner who said you were immature then maybe you should have a look at your behaviour , if it wasn't a possible partner - f**k em and their opinions. I'm not going to comment on God with you as I am a non believer and don't want to offend.
It was the latter. I've only had one real partner and that was back in 2010. I am not religious so no you would not offend me.
Better to have had one real partner than a bunch of shallow hook ups unless shallow hook ups is what you are after. All I was going to say about God is that IMO people wrongly use God as an answer for adversity but your Aunt was just being nice , or maybe she was trying to take you to the darkside of religion where you are made to believe that you life is s**t because you are being tested by an imaginary c**t who is trying to make you more like them.
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