Raleigh wrote:
My lovely housemate has made an offer on a house, which means she may be moving out if it's accepted.
She's lived with us for nearly 6 years, and I'll miss her terribly if she goes.
But at the same time I'm really happy for her, that's she's living life and moving forward.
I feel conflicted.
Luckily, the house is only 2 streets away.
But it won't be the same as her being here.
She even used to vacuum for me because she knew it turned me into a mental case.

I guess she has become like family by now.
My lovely neighbour will be moving sometime within the next year and I am not looking forward to it for the same kind of reasons - I will miss her dearly but at the same time will be glad that she has a smaller more manageable home to live in.
She is such a wonderful human being and has helped me out a few times, she has an abundance of empathy.
I also have some marvellous chats with her grandson, who also happens to have ASD - even before I was diagnosed we had a connection. We sit in our chairs and chat for ages and laugh together at a gate between our gardens.
Change is never easy as we want to hold on to what we know.
I will have to make the effort to go see them all and make sure that connection remains.