Pepe wrote:
adromedanblackhole wrote:
I'm not interested in creating an Oxford-style debate - or any formal style debate, which tends to happen on topics such as this
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But when a conversation takes the tone of a debate uhhh the back and forth is just becomes so horrendously tedious and boring to be a part of on a topic that is just fun and interesting to me - if you have questions and especially if they're fun or imaginative have a go
I am exactly the same.
I have often told people that I am overwhelmingly not interested in a debate.
Rather, I am interested in a *discussion* with the intention of mutual sharing and/or enlightenment.
I grew up in a family environment which always played the "Devil's advocacy" game.
Needless to say, I have very little time for that.

Ciao...
I feel the same about enjoying discussions but finding debates generally uninteresting.
It reminds me of when I was studying Philosophy for my undergrad degree and thought it would be fun to take a Politics elective. Nope!
To me, a philosophical discussion is a team effort - a joint venture into the realm of ideas.
Whereas a political debate is spiky and deaf.
I shy away from debates because they put me at risk of rolling my eyes so hard they detach and eat my own brain.