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20 Oct 2018, 12:46 pm

I've discovered a rather thorny problem with my writing.
It's a bit of the Star Trek conundrum, actually--a post scarcity utopian universe [but with manifestation instead of replicators] in theory, but characters act like things are still scarce, and in the case of my first series, logically, there would be none of the dark struggles that occur in Book 2, 3, and 5 of Series 1 especially [and none of the cosmic stakes in my latest series]. I've tried to explain it away by stating that some beings want to have super challenging life situations to grow spiritually...but...I'm not sure it works in practice.


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20 Oct 2018, 12:54 pm

People who have experienced extreme poverty or war rationing, for example, often act like things are still scarce.
I can remember my grandmother keeping twisty-ties and washing out plastic bags to reuse.
Of course, now it's become trendy to be frugal and zero-waste.

Some people who've gone hungry in the past become food hoarders.


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20 Oct 2018, 1:01 pm

My mum told me that her grandmother used to do similar things.

I hoard food, but only in video games. I'm not entirely sure why.


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20 Oct 2018, 1:10 pm

hoarders have a lot of anxiety.
I know someone who hoards.
You can hardly walk through their house, full of rubbish.
You think, "Why don't they just throw it out?"
But if you remove one small piece of paper, it will drive them nuts.


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20 Oct 2018, 1:33 pm

People are so strange, it's almost laughable.


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20 Oct 2018, 1:36 pm

They probably think the same about us.
I know I'm strange, and people laugh at me sometimes, but usually they're just baffled.


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20 Oct 2018, 1:38 pm

Kuraudo7777 wrote:
I've discovered a rather thorny problem with my writing.
It's a bit of the Star Trek conundrum, actually--a post scarcity utopian universe [but with manifestation instead of replicators] in theory, but characters act like things are still scarce, and in the case of my first series, logically, there would be none of the dark struggles that occur in Book 2, 3, and 5 of Series 1 especially [and none of the cosmic stakes in my latest series]. I've tried to explain it away by stating that some beings want to have super challenging life situations to grow spiritually...but...I'm not sure it works in practice.

Their entire species had been abducted, starved, and then had their memories erased. Hoarding is an echo of that experience.


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20 Oct 2018, 1:41 pm

^^People don't tend to notice me. If they do, they often have to guess my gender.

^Erm...


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20 Oct 2018, 2:36 pm

Kuraudo7777 wrote:
^Erm...

Fine, see if I give you any million dollar story ideas again.

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20 Oct 2018, 2:47 pm

Hoarding can be a bit like addiction, as in you are always aware of the potential to slip backwards if you don't practice your daily anti-hoarding techniques. It is about being aware that the hoarder is still in there.

I don't expect anyone to really understand as it is difficult for the person with a hoarding problem to understand. It is something I have lived with for years and know how hard it is to give up a tiny useless piece of anything.

There are many reasons for hoarding and some are very understandable such as hoarding food if you are worried you may not be able to afford food in the future. Or if a creative side wants to keep things to recycle.

I know what it looks like to outsiders, however, I also know it can in some way sooth me.



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20 Oct 2018, 4:50 pm

Kuraudo7777 wrote:
My mum told me that her grandmother used to do similar things.

I hoard food, but only in video games. I'm not entirely sure why.


I hoard stuff in my video game too.

But in real life I hate clutter and want to get rid of anything I don't absolutely need or use.

I'd like to be able to fit everything I own into a single suitcase.



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20 Oct 2018, 6:03 pm

Just finished making the potassium broth fr the week
The one thing I can rely on to feel strengthened during seasonal changes


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20 Oct 2018, 6:11 pm

So there were old oak tress in front of the police station and alongside city hall. I reminded myself to take a look at their leaves today. It was then that I realized they are not there anymore. Guess I was too distracted by the grounds of the courthouse being all torn up for renovations.



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20 Oct 2018, 6:20 pm

Local fire radio: engines responding to local parking lot on reports of a car smoking.

Personally, if the car is over 18 I don't see the problem.


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