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Very well put. I agree 100% and I know what you mean about "deciding to leave out key points". When I see my doctor I obsess for days ahead of time deciding what to say or not say, what to emphasise or deemphasise so that I don't seem like a hypochondriac or likewise like I'm not taking my health seriously. Then I have to juggle any stress I'm still bearing about the previous encounter, because I'm likely still ruminating about that too.

When I talk to her I go into a vortex where my other senses shut down and I'm in a type of tunnel vision hearing my voice squonk. Then it's over and I have to fill in the blanks about what really transpired. It's worse that I know her so well, because I assume she's keeping a running inventory of my peculiarities. I was even with her when I had my stroke! She's super nice but ... I won't recover from the visit for a few weeks at least.

same q about rumination.

Is rumination the same as repeating a word over and over? I get Teddy Ruxpin stuck in my head...

Rumination is repeating and replaying anything over and over, usually with worry or self-conscious feelings.

"compulsively focusing on ones negative thoughts", the dictionary defines "rumination"

The negative thought could be one word. For example, "rape"

But it sounds like the vast majority of negative thoughts are statements




What do you envy about your siblings?

My mother loves my brother.

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THEir IQ and knowledge and ability to make friends and not annoy ppl

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They're better at social interactions than I am.

Same questions.

You don't think she doesn't love you do you? Hopefully she does.

Nothing.

Have you ever been told to never see a friend again? If so, when did it happen and for what reason or reasons?

What do I envy about my siblings?

My sister has a husband and children, whilst I'm just perpetually on my own.

Have you ever been told not to see a friend again?

No.

My question: Do you have close friends or not really?

Right now I have one close friend.

Usually I have zero

When I had one friend, one person had the monopoly. Caroline Martinez and Amy Lee scheel b***h

But later it turned out that I was better off with zero friends than with her.



What kind of negative remarks did someone tell you about your appearance?

For many years I told myself that my eyelashes didn't look long enough because they are blonde at the tips. I still feel self-conscious about going out in public without mascara.

Who is your celebrity crush?

Michael C. Hall

I'm watching him right now

Dr. Noel Fitzpatrick, the Irish Supervet ...

and of course Art Garfunkel

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Adam Young- music

Have you ever had something dangerous happen to you?

Yes, very dangerous. Luckily I survived

And two of my celebrity crushes are Benedict Cumberbatch and Martin Freeman. I love Sherlock

What is your favorite holiday?

Christmas is the most sentimental and has the most sensory memories, but I actually like Easter for religious and personal reasons.


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