Brainiac42 wrote:
This has actually made me realize that I need to try harder. Once I try at something for a decent amount of time I give up, but I never truly fail due to ability.. it’s the fact that it’s hard so I give up. I’ve done that with running, math, sports.
I remember when we were still together and I had a newborn, in my mid-20s. A woman friend of mine said "I don't know how you have energy for all of that. Marriage is such hard work!" It was the first time I realised that relationships and marriages used up energy and required effort. I hadn't thought of it like that until she pointed it out. All in all, that relationship was 15 years of my life wasted (dating ---> brief marriage ---> aftermath) and even now 25 years later, he causes me stress and money in court. The whole thing was a waste except that I got the most amazing child ever as a result, so it was worth it all.
Intelligent Life: I'm still unsure if there's any on Earth. Other planets? Almost certainly.
same question
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