I don't bother with these types of people anymore. If a person expects you to do all of the hard work emotionally for them, whilst either not doing anything for you, or worse, hurting you emotionally - they are not worth it. However handsome or pretty they may be. However good at sex they may be?
None of that matters if they are emotionally abusive people.

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“I was ashamed of myself when I realized life was a costume party and I attended with my real face” - Franz Kafka