babybird wrote:
I wonder what is basic about it?
well that is a question i can not answer easily.
i just found his worries to be unworthy of much serious scrutiny as they did not seem important to me.
maybe you are right in seriously questioning me about what is basic about it.
i am not good at giving advice, and if i do, it is always from my perspective, and my perspective is that i am always correct and it does not matter what anyone else thinks.
but maybe for some people, i have to think it does matter what other people think.........
i can not personally understand why anyone would care about the thoughts in other people's heads, but i guess that you remind me that things mean a lot to others who i may not be charitable toward in my general demeanor.