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29 Dec 2015, 6:04 pm

I wonder if I'd had a good early childhood start if I'd not be here today.
Cause I'm not socialized well at all. I don't know my place in the social hierarchy or how to properly act depending on who I'm interacting with. So many of my resources are used up by "improvising" while most people have learned what is expected of them and they can embrace it and act much more convincingly, because they can see themselves in that role, they are the role. Without that it's harder and I make more mistakes than such people. That's the thing, I don't know what's expected of me socially, what role to play. That's where everything falls apart.
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29 Dec 2015, 6:11 pm

^ Hey Earthling, your not the only one whom has never been able to fall into place so to speak.. I'd try to be comfortable with yourself as possible.


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29 Dec 2015, 6:30 pm

^That sounds like sage advice to me! :cheers:


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29 Dec 2015, 6:32 pm

Thanks Kuraudo777, Now the character in my avatar will touch the Sarsen stone


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29 Dec 2015, 6:48 pm

Yes, my random thing to say today is:

Laughing my muthafcking ass off at the jumped up, delusional little a-hole who will never get just what a loser he actually is, he's too high on that horse to see the reality on the sidewalk he will one day splatter upon if there's any karma. :lol:

Oh, I'm talking about the guy down the hall from me, nobody HERE, perish the thought! That would NEVER happen.



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29 Dec 2015, 7:11 pm

kazanscube wrote:
Well, Time for martial arts practice then I take it?? :lol:

Not for me lol, they have suggested I do it..but just the thought of interacting with all those sweaty humans makes me cringe.


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29 Dec 2015, 9:01 pm

Ignoring vague passive-aggression is the best way to not feed it. If there is an actual issue, then people can discuss it directly in an adult manner.

Of course, everything is a work in progress...



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29 Dec 2015, 10:45 pm

I think I need to get a dog



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29 Dec 2015, 11:05 pm

I'm your piggy, oink oink~ oo~ink


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29 Dec 2015, 11:22 pm

How or why does a sensory seeking aspie eventually became sensory adverse? And the other way around...


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29 Dec 2015, 11:25 pm

Drawyer wrote:
I'm your piggy, oink oink~ oo~ink


Thanks, now I am thinking about Super pig. :lol:



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29 Dec 2015, 11:31 pm

Sigbold wrote:
Drawyer wrote:
I'm your piggy, oink oink~ oo~ink


Thanks, now I am thinking about Super pig. :lol:


Made me think of Babe



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30 Dec 2015, 2:08 am

If this level serves me correctly everything in my house is tilted and crooked. Not even my kitchen benches are level! 8O

I know none of the walls in my garage are perfectly vertical now. God this place was built on the cheap lol.



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30 Dec 2015, 3:13 am

Sigh...


Just Sigh. :?

Time ticks oddly around....


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30 Dec 2015, 5:22 am

my enemies in my dreams are geckos they're the most creepy things on the planet i don't know how to love them and get over the fear



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30 Dec 2015, 6:00 am

Well, I switched from bubble wrap back to regular plastic bags.