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25 Oct 2018, 9:03 am

I'm fairly old-fashioned, too, CockneyRebel.



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25 Oct 2018, 9:09 am

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-That not every forum has the same general social structure. I was surprised when I first joined here to see people refer to the creator of the website by first name and quite frequently may I add. On another forum I am a part of, there is a page detailing the story behind the website (including who created it) but the staff are primarily on equal footing/status. (Not that I’m saying it’s a bad thing that this forum works differently, I know this paragraph might come across this way but that’s not my intention. I’m just fascinated by website structures, and how this one in particular promotes users to view Alex as someone they know, rather than the typically distant approach which is common among forums. This is particularly evidenced by the emails that are sent out signed under Alex’s name rather than merely the forum title).

...I’m an IT geek with an eye for detail and an obsessive mind when it comes to analysing websites. Sorry. I’ll try to keep it to a minimum. :oops: :lol:

-Also, it has been stated that the best way to not become a moderator on Wrong Planet is to request to be one. However, based on the limited forums I have been a member on, it is common for members to put in a request to be a moderator and have the chance of being accepted. On a forum that I have been a member on since I was sixteen, becoming a moderator is a long process so people that aren’t completely invested in becoming one don’t usually tend to bother. You have to reach several different criteria, fill out two forms, consistently post, and then the existing staff will review your record (considering any strikes or other bad behaviour you may have) before responding (which can take up to three weeks). If you get rejected you have to wait a bit before you can apply again.

-That Sock puppet accounts and seemingly never-ending threads are surprisingly common. As naive as it may come across, I never fully realised just how much this type of thing goes on. However, there was once a scandal on the forum I mentioned above where someone faked their own death and created another account posing as a mourning friend. Staff noticed plot holes in their story (which was a five page thread) and decided to investigate, only to find out that everything was a complete fabrication. They shut down the thread and made a new one detailing their findings.

*Laughs* I remember when I thought a five page long thread full of lengthy responses was long, over here you get threads which have an unbelievable amount of replies. Ones that somehow go from a serious conversation to a discussion on cheese. :lol:


To add on to my previous post, I'd also like to comment on a realisation that I have come to during my time here. Not everyone takes the same approach as me. Saying it now it seems obvious to me, but I've never really given it much thought until recently. I can sometimes come across as a bit detached, and ask questions which I believe will be interpreted neutrally when actually there are some emotional implications that I may have missed.

For example, usually if someone asks me "Ugh, why are you such an idiot?" my typical response would be to go into an in-depth response detailing why I am bad in certain areas, and how I could improve. Of course, this isn't what people mean most of the time but it's what I'm used to doing. Either that or I respond "Wow, I am? I had no idea, for how could an idiot such as myself comprehend her own stupidity? Thank you for enlightening me" or "Who is the bigger idiot, the one who wastes their time talking to one, or the other who is blissfully unaware of their own ignorance?". :lol: Ah, coming up with comebacks at school was always entertaining. People usually get annoyed when they try to insult me because I usually either end up over analysing it, or I turn it against them if I want revenge :P.

Sometimes I state a fact or opinion and don't realise that by doing so it makes it come across as though I'm trying to make a point and harshly criticise a particular thing or behaviour, when actually I just expected people to take the same apathetic stance and comment on it/ speculate on why this thing is true or false, because I thought it was interesting. At least I've become less oblivious to this over time due to my experiences. :)


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25 Oct 2018, 12:39 pm

Before I joined WP I had no idea how many things I put down to quirks or weirdness or 'my stupid body/brain" were actually ASD related, or co-morbids of ASD.


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25 Oct 2018, 1:26 pm

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That I've turned out to be...the most warlike member here



no.


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25 Oct 2018, 1:35 pm

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british english and american english are not mutually intelligible

scottish pride is real

autism explains everything

arguing politics with people is pointless because minds are made up and nobody wants to challenge their beliefs

autism speaks is literally hitler

and so is cloudflare

the site has not worked properly for over half a decade

i'm talented apparently


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25 Oct 2018, 1:37 pm

CockneyRebel wrote:
That I've turned out to be ... the most warlike member here

That's not what I've learned about you; you seem every bit the Sweet Pea that you like to see in other people. Sympathy for the comradeship of soldiers or people facing the hardships of war, the culture of common people who chanced to find themselves on the "wrong side", or a time in history when war was an ever present fear, is not the same at all as being "warlike" yourself.


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26 Oct 2018, 9:16 am

CockneyRebel,

You are one of the nicest and most supportive members here. You also share some of my interests (notably pets and 1960s British music).

The Ks (Kura, Kraftiekortie, Kazanscube) are also very supportive.

There are lots of fellow cat (and pet people) here!



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26 Oct 2018, 9:35 am

I have learnt on WP that...

... Aspies seem to often assume that once a suggestion has been made, the problem is solved, even though the suggestion has yet to be tried.

... Aspies seem to often confuse a goal with a plan, a plan with action, and action with results.

... Aspies seem to often confuse politeness with interest, interest with love, and love with desire.

... Aspies seem to often confuse disagreement with hostility, contempt with hatred, and insult with violence.



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26 Oct 2018, 9:45 am

I have learned that this appears to be Fnord's favourite new thread


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26 Oct 2018, 9:51 am

I have learnt on WP that...

... Aspies seem to often assume more than they know about people they don't know.



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26 Oct 2018, 9:58 am

I have learnt on WP that...

Aspies often talk about themselves without realising it.


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26 Oct 2018, 10:15 am

I've learned that...

Ferris is more sagacious than some who present themselves as such.



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26 Oct 2018, 10:20 am

Fnord wrote:
I have learnt on WP that...

... Aspies seem to often assume that once a suggestion has been made, the problem is solved, even though the suggestion has yet to be tried.


evidence please , except for the recent post that made you post this comment


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26 Oct 2018, 10:25 am

I've leaned that...

When my autistic brain goes haywire, I'll f**k up the simplest post multiple times.



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26 Oct 2018, 10:32 am

I have learned..

That sometimes I read a comment and go :evil: and post my comment.

Then as I hit the post button it suddenly dawns on me that I misinterpreted it and I frantically hit the edit button before anyone finds out I'm really a fool :jester:


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26 Oct 2018, 10:35 am

EzraS wrote:
I've learned that...

Ferris is more sagacious than some who present themselves as such.


Stop using words I have to look up


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