ASS-P wrote:
...Were/are " grammar schools " different and lower in status than the " public schools '

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I can't speak for Grammar Schools in the present era, as I've no experience of them, but certainly in the post-war period up to perhaps the mid-1980s, the best Grammar Schools were very good indeed, probably every bit as good as any Public School in academic terms. After 1986, the old Grammar School exam system ('O Levels' and 'A Levels') was abolished, and the Grammars followed the same curriculum and exam system as the Comps (GCSEs and dumbed down A Levels). As a result, standards fell a great deal, I believe.
In terms of 'social status', the Grammars are lower in general, but not everyone in this country cares much about that.
In the 1970s, I attended a Direct Grant Grammar School, which was a mainly publicly funded school with more autonomy for the headmaster and governors. These were probably the best schools this country has ever had, but their status was abolished in the late 1970s. Many became Independent, fee-paying establishments.
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