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21 Jan 2016, 5:20 pm

^ I'm lucky. I work for the Government and they're a very fair EEO (Equal Employment) Organisation. Having said that, harassment does still go on and it's a very much "not what you know but who you know" kind of setup.

I'd practically have to kill another employee to get fired (or take drugs).

I've never been given a warning or a formal talk but I know of people who have and you should ALWAYS have someone else there. Just to keep things fair.

Even our phones are bugged and all of our activities on the computer are monitored.


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21 Jan 2016, 5:24 pm

@Aurora
It's your decision - if you disclose or not - you know what you're comfortable with.

I had a horrible situation where I disclosed, then one of my supervisors called me in to a meeting and basically told me I was incompetent because I have ASD and I would lose my position.

I had to go through a whole reporting process and countless meetings with her supervisor to get her to show evidence of my 'incompetence', of which there was none.

Maybe I shouldn't have disclosed but if I had had those accomodations in place earlier that situation wouldn't have happened.


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21 Jan 2016, 5:29 pm

I work for the government too.
Discrimination is rife.
It will be swept under the carpet and you must shut up about it or you'll be shipped elsewhere.
Not very EEO here.


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21 Jan 2016, 5:30 pm

Bah, I gotta do some work.
See you later.


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21 Jan 2016, 5:37 pm

Raleigh wrote:
Bah, I gotta do some work.
See you later.


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21 Jan 2016, 5:40 pm

Yes, they all say they are an EEO, but most of them find ways around it.

I believe my manager will be in the meeting with me, (she used to work in a special needs school and may understand me better than most) so I think I'll have some support there. I just wish I knew what questions they had that they can't ask through email.



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21 Jan 2016, 5:55 pm

AuroraBorealisGazer wrote:
Yes, they all say they are an EEO, but most of them find ways around it.

I believe my manager will be in the meeting with me, (she used to work in a special needs school and may understand me better than most) so I think I'll have some support there. I just wish I knew what questions they had that they can't ask through email.


My boss knows I've got Asperger's Syndrome and she was very interested in it.

One time, I was having sensory/other issues with where they moved me to and she moved me back. Other people who wanted to move and weren't allowed were jealous and kept asking why I was allowed to move and they couldn't. She's made several exceptions for me due to my AS and been very nice to me. She's a lovely person. Her name is Maria.


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21 Jan 2016, 6:37 pm

My cat was sitting in the window trying to catch or lick the snowflakes falling on the other side of the glass today.



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21 Jan 2016, 7:00 pm

ImAnAspie wrote:
AuroraBorealisGazer wrote:
Yes, they all say they are an EEO, but most of them find ways around it.

I believe my manager will be in the meeting with me, (she used to work in a special needs school and may understand me better than most) so I think I'll have some support there. I just wish I knew what questions they had that they can't ask through email.


My boss knows I've got Asperger's Syndrome and she was very interested in it.

One time, I was having sensory/other issues with where they moved me to and she moved me back. Other people who wanted to move and weren't allowed were jealous and kept asking why I was allowed to move and they couldn't. She's made several exceptions for me due to my AS and been very nice to me. She's a lovely person. Her name is Maria.


That's great that your boss has been so nice and accommodating!



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21 Jan 2016, 7:01 pm

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My cat was sitting in the window trying to catch or lick the snowflakes falling on the other side of the glass today.


That's adorable! :cat:



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21 Jan 2016, 8:20 pm

I heard a girl say that when she was a Study Abroad student in Costa Rica, she was lonely and depressed because she didn't have any friends for a couple weeks. It took all my strength not to laugh my ass off. I routinely go entire semesters without friends.



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21 Jan 2016, 8:25 pm

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I heard a girl say that when she was a Study Abroad student in Costa Rica, she was lonely and depressed because she didn't have any friends for a couple weeks. It took all my strength not to laugh my ass off. I routinely go entire semesters without friends.


Screw friends, they are overrated and they care as much for you as a wolf cares for a sheep.

You get more done by yourself anyway.



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21 Jan 2016, 8:44 pm

"Patience is a virtue."

Yeah, not on my watch... :roll:


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21 Jan 2016, 8:50 pm

But I don't wanna miss work.


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21 Jan 2016, 9:03 pm

I don't like missing work, either.


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21 Jan 2016, 10:08 pm