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CockneyRebel
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29 Jan 2016, 7:57 pm

I'm a hot mess, right now.


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29 Jan 2016, 7:58 pm

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I was pretending to be something that I'm not at work, today. I was pretending to be bubbly and bright and I was really forcing the eye-contact. I was trying to hide my Schultz like features, mannerisms and traits as well as the Sweet Pea nature he does have when he's mellow. Every second word out of my mouth was happy. I was faking cheeky and enthusiasm when my true nature is really slow and mythodic while looking through the corner my somewhat misty eyes that show my sensitive nature. I waved my cry scarf around and said, "Why would a cheeky and perky Cockney have something like that in their coat pocket?" I did that because I thought I was in trouble for showing my true nature at work. I don't want to lose my job, so I was trying to be what I'm not.


I think a lot of us have to pretend we're more like everyone else at work, in order to maintain our positions. Don't feel bad Cockney!



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29 Jan 2016, 8:01 pm

I think sometimes I would like to be able to forget about the people in my life who have died.
Sounds awful, I know.
We tend to prolong the grieving process.
Some cultures wail and beat themselves and let their grief out that way.
The worst thing is to keep your grief inside.


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29 Jan 2016, 8:06 pm

Yeah, I think it has the potential to be healthy, if the person truly gets the grieving out of their system within the amount of time allotted. But it could also pose some issues for some people who tend to prolong the grieving process. I also think it can be healthy to look back on fond memories of the deceased occasionally.



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29 Jan 2016, 8:13 pm

I lost my shade sail in the storm last night.
It's torn into ribbons.
There's trees down around the place.
And I've been hearing sirens all morning.
We got 4 inches of rain.


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29 Jan 2016, 8:16 pm

You were sailing during the height of the storm? That sounds harrowing! Hopefully there wasn't lightening.



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29 Jan 2016, 8:21 pm

There was shiploads of lightning!
And some wicked thunder.
Couldn't sleep.
I kept getting rained on but it was too stinking hot to close the window.


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29 Jan 2016, 8:23 pm

No air conditioning in your place? It's so hard to sleep when it's too hot.



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29 Jan 2016, 8:25 pm

No, no air con.
Just an open window and a soggy mattress.


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29 Jan 2016, 8:26 pm

As for the restaurant thing, I think people sometimes want to live vicariously through other people.



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29 Jan 2016, 8:27 pm

Ugh that sucks! I would have thought it would be similar to Florida down there, in that a/c is practically mandatory because the heat and humidity are so bad.



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29 Jan 2016, 8:29 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
As for the restaurant thing, I think people sometimes want to live vicariously through other people.


Humans are strange little creatures :alien:



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29 Jan 2016, 8:30 pm

The summer I had graduated school I slept on the floor because it was so hot.



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29 Jan 2016, 8:36 pm

^ Did that help?



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29 Jan 2016, 8:37 pm

Yes.
I was able to open the windows (mosquito swarms came in) and sleep under a tent of mosquito nets.



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29 Jan 2016, 8:41 pm

Earthling wrote:
Yes.
I was able to open the windows (mosquito swarms came in) and sleep under a tent of mosquito nets.


That sucks. Sounds like your climate is similar to ours.