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31 Jan 2016, 6:55 am

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I can't talk to my mum right now. I need to talk to a counselor. I'm sensitive and my mum's logical. It's just not working. Maybe I should see her on Birthdays and holidays. There's been a wedge driven between us. There's a special name for that wedge. That wedge has been around since the Late 60s. That wedge is The Generation Gap. Hippies had a very hard time getting along with their parents in the 60s. This is no different. I can still phone my mum and wish her a good morning and say that I love her. She's of the Hippie generation. War is very popular right now. I guess you can say that I'll be going solo in a sense. It's like when Mick Avory left The Kinks in 1984 but he was still welcome for special things. I can't talk to someone who doesn't accept me as I am. the cry of every generation. I can't talk to someone who can't accept me as I am. This is almost like a war time version of Hair. I never thought it would happen to me. I've got to soldier on. It's the best that I can do.


Cockney, that's so sad.

I don't know what to say but all I can say is, my Mother is dying, and soon, It'll be too late to be able to say anything to her. She's got dementia and it's almost like she's not there at all. I can say stuff to her and she doesn't remember but at least, she can still hear me.

No matter what your differences are in life, don't leave it until it's too late. Once she's gone, it'll be too late and you'll hate yourself for not putting the small stuff behind you and loving the person who gave birth to you, nurtured you, raised you.

Don't throw all that away for some silly state of mind. Because one day, she won't be there and it will be too late.

Take it from one who knows!


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31 Jan 2016, 6:59 am

I knew it would come to this.


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31 Jan 2016, 7:02 am

From a Kinks point of view, it would be like this:


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31 Jan 2016, 7:03 am

Ray Davies is giving Mick Avory the boot.


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31 Jan 2016, 7:08 am

I'm going to put on my bravest smile and go into work. Not the fake Peter Newkirk one.


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31 Jan 2016, 7:12 am

I listen to this song for the sound. How a Cockney band can do that is amazing.


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31 Jan 2016, 7:15 am

I know there's a place for tin soldier misfits like me.


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31 Jan 2016, 7:19 am

I guess I'll be riding my pretend motorcycle around town when I'm not working. I can't get over Alfred P. Doolittle's own war helmet.


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31 Jan 2016, 7:21 am

I reiterate:

I know this is hard for you to digest but please (and I only say this because I care about you) Please consider what I just said (below). Please see the bigger picture. Life's no game. Once they're gone, they're gone FOREVER and you can't talk to them ever again. You'll never hear the sound of her voice ever again. No matter where you look, you'll never find her! Everyone you know, someday will die! Including your Mum. Don't leave it until it's too late. If you do, you'll rue the passing of the day when you had a chance to talk to her - because one day, she won't be there to talk to. Don't take life for granted. Life's too short. We all go and you never know when that's going to be. You'll never know when she's going to go. Now's the time. Talk to her now, before it's too late.

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Cockney, that's so sad.

I don't know what to say but all I can say is, my Mother is dying, and soon, It'll be too late to be able to say anything to her. She's got dementia and it's almost like she's not there at all. I can say stuff to her and she doesn't remember but at least, she can still hear me.

No matter what your differences are in life, don't leave it until it's too late. Once she's gone, it'll be too late and you'll hate yourself for not putting the small stuff behind you and loving the person who gave birth to you, nurtured you, raised you.

Don't throw all that away for some silly state of mind. Because one day, she won't be there and it will be too late.

Take it from one who knows!


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31 Jan 2016, 7:27 am

ImAnAspie wrote:
I reiterate:

I know this is hard for you to digest but please (and I only say this because I care about you) Please consider what I just said (below). Please see the bigger picture. Life's no game. Once they're gone, they're gone FOREVER and you can't talk to them ever again. You'll never hear the sound of her voice ever again. No matter where you look, you'll never find her! Everyone you know, someday will die! Including your Mum. Don't leave it until it's too late. If you do, you'll rue the passing of the day when you had a chance to talk to her - because one day, she won't be there to talk to. Don't take life for granted. Life's too short. We all go and you never know when that's going to be. You'll never know when she's going to go. Now's the time. Talk to her now, before it's too late.

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Cockney, that's so sad.

I will keep the line of communication open.

I don't know what to say but all I can say is, my Mother is dying, and soon, It'll be too late to be able to say anything to her. She's got dementia and it's almost like she's not there at all. I can say stuff to her and she doesn't remember but at least, she can still hear me.

No matter what your differences are in life, don't leave it until it's too late. Once she's gone, it'll be too late and you'll hate yourself for not putting the small stuff behind you and loving the person who gave birth to you, nurtured you, raised you.

Don't throw all that away for some silly state of mind. Because one day, she won't be there and it will be too late.

Take it from one who knows!


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31 Jan 2016, 7:29 am

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ImAnAspie wrote:
I reiterate:

I know this is hard for you to digest but please (and I only say this because I care about you) Please consider what I just said (below). Please see the bigger picture. Life's no game. Once they're gone, they're gone FOREVER and you can't talk to them ever again. You'll never hear the sound of her voice ever again. No matter where you look, you'll never find her! Everyone you know, someday will die! Including your Mum. Don't leave it until it's too late. If you do, you'll rue the passing of the day when you had a chance to talk to her - because one day, she won't be there to talk to. Don't take life for granted. Life's too short. We all go and you never know when that's going to be. You'll never know when she's going to go. Now's the time. Talk to her now, before it's too late.

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Cockney, that's so sad.

I will keep the line of communication open.

I don't know what to say but all I can say is, my Mother is dying, and soon, It'll be too late to be able to say anything to her. She's got dementia and it's almost like she's not there at all. I can say stuff to her and she doesn't remember but at least, she can still hear me.

No matter what your differences are in life, don't leave it until it's too late. Once she's gone, it'll be too late and you'll hate yourself for not putting the small stuff behind you and loving the person who gave birth to you, nurtured you, raised you.

Don't throw all that away for some silly state of mind. Because one day, she won't be there and it will be too late.

Take it from one who knows!


I'll keep the line of communication open.


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31 Jan 2016, 7:33 am

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ImAnAspie wrote:
I reiterate:

I know this is hard for you to digest but please (and I only say this because I care about you) Please consider what I just said (below). Please see the bigger picture. Life's no game. Once they're gone, they're gone FOREVER and you can't talk to them ever again. You'll never hear the sound of her voice ever again. No matter where you look, you'll never find her! Everyone you know, someday will die! Including your Mum. Don't leave it until it's too late. If you do, you'll rue the passing of the day when you had a chance to talk to her - because one day, she won't be there to talk to. Don't take life for granted. Life's too short. We all go and you never know when that's going to be. You'll never know when she's going to go. Now's the time. Talk to her now, before it's too late.

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Cockney, that's so sad.

I will keep the line of communication open.

I don't know what to say but all I can say is, my Mother is dying, and soon, It'll be too late to be able to say anything to her. She's got dementia and it's almost like she's not there at all. I can say stuff to her and she doesn't remember but at least, she can still hear me.

No matter what your differences are in life, don't leave it until it's too late. Once she's gone, it'll be too late and you'll hate yourself for not putting the small stuff behind you and loving the person who gave birth to you, nurtured you, raised you.

Don't throw all that away for some silly state of mind. Because one day, she won't be there and it will be too late.

Take it from one who knows!


I'll keep the line of communication open.


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31 Jan 2016, 7:48 am

I'll keep visiting as well. Maybe just twice a month instead of every week. I think we've been seeing too much of each other. Normal adults aren't meant to sleep over at their mum's every single weekend. Two weekends a month seems pretty par, I think. Dean has a very unusual relationship with his dad. He is able to spend 4 days a week with his dad. I also think he might have a few more challenges than I do because that's very unusual. I still accept him though. Four days in a row is a bit much for me. I feel it restricting. Christmas and Boxing Day didn't go over too well. It's because we were constantly around each other.


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31 Jan 2016, 7:57 am

I was getting confused when my boss kept telling me to wear a smile. What smile? A big pasty smile like every body else in the bank with eyes so dry that they turn red? I'm going to be my sweet, misty eyed but not teary eyed self at work from now on. I'll bring the scarf but it will only be used to blow my noes or clean up messes. I can cry into my scarf all I need to at home. I've gone from being cocky and cheeky to being sweet and sad and I don't know how to adjust. Thanks a lot diet pills. I wish I never took you. More people die from diet pills than anything else. Than again, do I really want to be cheeky and cocky with the customers? That's so 2015.


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31 Jan 2016, 7:58 am

You never know when the last time you see those you love will be.

Think about it


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