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04 Feb 2016, 1:30 am

It's better than letting myself be forced to be a lady by Barb. I used to recycle as a way of getting my man-nes out of my system before having tea with her and listening to her talking about "Ladies that she'd see." I dedicate this song to her.


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04 Feb 2016, 1:34 am

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I am fuming right now. I just found out the A-hole narc boyfriend spent a couple thousand dollars (from our joint account) without saying a f-ing word to me! And then as usual he tries to manipulate me into feeling guilty for being angry with him. This comes after his announcement last week that he was quitting his full-time job to go freelance. FUUUUUUUU
He's not remorseful at all. Truly a disgusting display.


1. Never have a joint account
2. Break up with him
3. Manipulate him by making him feel guilty for not being able to hold down a job
4. Profit



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04 Feb 2016, 1:35 am

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Oh, I see. Sarcasm - I'm such an Aspie :oops:

I can't afford an ambulance!


LOL I am glad you got it because I was wondering how to explain that lol



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04 Feb 2016, 1:38 am

I can't be a Mod anymore. It's too ladylike of a thing for me to be. Mods wear colours that young women would usually wear. I'm sick of being called a lady, therefore I choose the Schultz helmet. Everybody in my part of Langley will be calling me Sir in no time. I'm happy about that.

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Soft core Mods become hippies and hard core Mods join the Army and fight for their countries. If they can't fight, they come up with a creative way to support the war effort.


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04 Feb 2016, 1:40 am

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Wanna see a picture of it?


um actually no...

But I suppose I am out voted and I am on 4chan right now anyway so bring it on, I can take it.


It's not big but it was deep.

Wait until I get inside and I'll take it.
I'm in spider city at the moment.


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04 Feb 2016, 1:41 am

dcj123 wrote:
AuroraBorealisGazer wrote:
I am fuming right now. I just found out the A-hole narc boyfriend spent a couple thousand dollars (from our joint account) without saying a f-ing word to me! And then as usual he tries to manipulate me into feeling guilty for being angry with him. This comes after his announcement last week that he was quitting his full-time job to go freelance. FUUUUUUUU
He's not remorseful at all. Truly a disgusting display.


1. Never have a joint account
2. Break up with him
3. Manipulate him by making him feel guilty for not being able to hold down a job
4. Profit


1.Yeah I kept our stuff separate for a long time but then he led me to believe we'd be getting married, and he was the only one with an income, so it seemed okay.
2. I posted about this a month or two ago, but long story short, I am working on getting out but it's going to require a lot of things to fall into place. Like I need to double my income or I won't have enough to afford rent or food. And I am starting counseling next week, to help me too, because I have huge issues with change and will need support (there will be many meltdowns).
3. Can't really make a narcissist feel guilty...they're like sociopaths



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04 Feb 2016, 1:48 am

I can't wait until The Monkees are on Me TV. It is their 50th Anniversary this year. It's a shame that I missed the 50th Anniversary of Hogan's Heroes. I was too bitter mulling over gender issues to notice. I can't wait until the real helmet. I'll be crushing gender like a saw crushes ice.


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04 Feb 2016, 1:50 am

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I posted about this a month or two ago, but long story short, I am working on getting out but it's going to require a lot of things to fall into place. Like I need to double my income or I won't have enough to afford rent or food. And I am starting counseling next week, to help me too, because I have huge issues with change and will need support (there will be many meltdowns).


I don't want to turn random discussion into a support forum but I will say that staying in any bad relationship because you are financially dependent is a bad idea. I haven't been in a romantic relationship but I have dealt with my brother who was abusive when we both relied on our parents financially. To make a long story short, I became homeless but that was still better than dealing with my brothers crap. I don't recommend homelessness but what I do recommend is to get out as soon as possible, is disability an opinion?

I don't know what to say but I feel for you in this situation.



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04 Feb 2016, 1:51 am

I'm going to add Mash to my lineup tomorrow night.


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04 Feb 2016, 1:54 am

When ankle meets heavy, falling knife from six feet above - as I said, it went in point first - It's not big but it's DEEP!:

Ankle (complete with cotton wool):

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It's still bleeding actually!


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04 Feb 2016, 1:54 am

Poor LeBeau. He's in a tiny tank and he's Claustrophobic.


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04 Feb 2016, 1:56 am

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When ankle meets heavy, falling knife from six feet above - as I said, it went in point first - It's not big but it's DEEP!:

Ankle (complete with cotton wool):

Image


Knife:

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It's still bleeding actually!



Excuse the dirty foot :oops:


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04 Feb 2016, 1:58 am

dcj123 wrote:
AuroraBorealisGazer wrote:
I posted about this a month or two ago, but long story short, I am working on getting out but it's going to require a lot of things to fall into place. Like I need to double my income or I won't have enough to afford rent or food. And I am starting counseling next week, to help me too, because I have huge issues with change and will need support (there will be many meltdowns).


I don't want to turn random discussion into a support forum but I will say that staying in any bad relationship because you are financially dependent is a bad idea. I haven't been in a romantic relationship but I have dealt with my brother who was abusive when we both relied on our parents financially. To make a long story short, I became homeless but that was still better than dealing with my brothers crap. I don't recommend homelessness but what I do recommend is to get out as soon as possible, is disability an opinion?

I don't know what to say but I feel for you in this situation.


Thanks. Trust me, I am getting out as soon as possible, I just know from speaking to people who've dealt with people like him that it can be really bad to leave like you would with a regular relationship. He could potentially screw me out of all of my money/assets, take my cat, etc. As of now I am in no immediate danger, and I have serious health conditions that have to be considered.

I am definitely disabled...multiple times over...but I've been told I make too much per month ($1100) to get disability. (I work 17hrs per week).



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04 Feb 2016, 1:58 am

ImAnAspie wrote:
ImAnAspie wrote:
When ankle meets heavy, falling knife from six feet above - as I said, it went in point first - It's not big but it's DEEP!:

Ankle (complete with cotton wool):

Image


Knife:

Image

It's still bleeding actually!



Excuse the dirty foot :oops:



My leg looks black ???


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04 Feb 2016, 1:59 am

Don't cry. Those are the worse thing you can say to a child. It's even worse when you're yelling at them for crying. It's pretty evil to send your kid to their room for crying. Why don't you just shoot them?


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04 Feb 2016, 2:00 am

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Don't cry. Those are the worse thing you can say to a child. It's even worse when you're yelling at them for crying. It's pretty evil to send your kid to their room for crying. Why don't you just shoot them?


Both are... I don't even know how to respond to that Cockney


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