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22 Feb 2016, 2:52 pm

I was going to make a pun about inert gases but all the best ones argon.


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22 Feb 2016, 2:59 pm

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22 Feb 2016, 3:25 pm

Physics jokes have potential, but chemistry jokes are really boron.


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Littlecat: I like bishonen boys or bishojo girls with long hair. 8)


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22 Feb 2016, 3:29 pm

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Physics jokes have potential, but chemistry jokes are really boron.

LOL


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22 Feb 2016, 3:36 pm

some folks wish to take the thin veneer of civilization and use it for kindling



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22 Feb 2016, 5:05 pm

:idea:

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some folks wish to take the thin veneer of civilization and use it for kindling


They do. It's a pity. It's only that thin layer of veneer that saves us from each other.


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22 Feb 2016, 5:14 pm

Some men aren't looking for anything logical, like money. They can't be bought, bullied, reasoned or negotiated with. Some men just want to watch the world burn.



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22 Feb 2016, 5:18 pm

/me is tired
/me is also pretending /me is something that works with forums too :p
/me also changes their avatar excessively
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22 Feb 2016, 5:35 pm

Why is it so hard for me to talk about my emotions/discuss emotional things (in person)? Suddenly my voice will break and I back-track to rational mode, or make a joke. What's wrong with me?



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22 Feb 2016, 5:49 pm

AuroraBorealisGazer wrote:
Why is it so hard for me to talk about my emotions/discuss emotional things (in person)? Suddenly my voice will break and I back-track to rational mode, or make a joke. What's wrong with me?

would it help if the person you are relating to let you write down your feelings?



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22 Feb 2016, 6:02 pm

auntblabby wrote:
AuroraBorealisGazer wrote:
Why is it so hard for me to talk about my emotions/discuss emotional things (in person)? Suddenly my voice will break and I back-track to rational mode, or make a joke. What's wrong with me?

would it help if the person you are relating to let you write down your feelings?


Somewhat, though even in written format I tend to hold back or deflect.
When verbalizing, it becomes problematic because something that is difficult to say, will make me feel on the verge of breaking down. I feel uncomfortable being this emotional in front of people.



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22 Feb 2016, 6:07 pm

here is a thought experiment one can try- on the observation that the brain has a limited amount of resources to apply to any task or problem, to tamp down the emotions try to make your expression at least at first as abstract as you can make it- avoid words which in the past excited your emotions and instead use the most clinical terminology you can muster- this will do two things- 1] it will avoid words that have emotional connotations/denotations/associations, and 2] will tax your brain's resources so that you have just enough to get your thoughts out but the emotions are shunted aside due to not enough spare neurons after expressing your complex abstraction out loud or in print. just a thought.



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22 Feb 2016, 6:08 pm

AsahiPto17 wrote:
/me is tired
/me is also pretending /me is something that works with forums too :p
/me also changes their avatar excessively
/me has created a random post that's more like an irc chatlog



/me likes your avatar


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