littlecatinthewindow wrote:
I'm just too nice. I don't like being mean, not on purpose, but that seems to be the only way to get things to work. It's because I'm too nice that I let myself be bossed around by my boyfriend for so long, and why I gave in and did everything he wanted. And I can't look after my siblings properly, I won't be a good parent, just because I don't like upsetting people, and that may be more selfish of me than being mean just because if they're happy, I'm happy too. I don't know what I can do about it. I don't know how I can make it through life without hurting anyone. The problem is, I'm too emotionally attached to people, but is that not better than not caring? I don't know!!