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25 Oct 2016, 9:39 pm

YAY, caves 8)

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25 Oct 2016, 9:58 pm

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YAY, caves 8)

I might be crazy but you can never have too many backup plans,

Yes, you might be just a little bit crazy.. :mrgreen:

You schould watch the movie "Into the wild", be carefull so you don't end up like the main character in that movie...



Yesterday I met up with an entrepreneur, a plumber and an electrician. I could literally feel the disrespect and the attitude: "here we have a gullible soul, that we can make a lot of money of" I will say it was like they "raped" a tiny percent of my soul. But who will get the last laugh.. :twisted: There is not a chance in h**l I'll sign a contrct with them. Instead I learned a lot from them, that I take with me on my quest for an entreprenuer I can trust (to the degree I can trust anyone of that kind)



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25 Oct 2016, 11:21 pm

Well, time to head off to bed.


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25 Oct 2016, 11:27 pm

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Well, time to head off to bed.

Good night!



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25 Oct 2016, 11:46 pm

I really wish the heat would come on in my apartment building.


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25 Oct 2016, 11:47 pm

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I definitely find meaning in giving to others, so yes, I do find some meaning in life. I get the sense that some people here can also relate to my feeling though that so much of everyday conversation is superficial, providing only crumbs of meaning. In general, I need to find a way to make peace with the idea that I have to cultivate a meaningful life, moment by moment, trying things, hoping they work, hoping that mundane tasks lead to meaningful results, ETC. Otherwise, I'll keep feeling sad and frustrated.


I also prefer deeper conversations. Deeper one on one conversations with someone I trust, can give some comfort. Or talking about something one have in common, but it isn't often I meet someone like that, and for me it takes very long time to develope trust. For me, interacting with other people only feels meaningfull if I can be/dare to be myself. Otherwise it just nourishes the shame.

Actually making my own dinner more or less from scratch, and doing the dishes (even though there is a dishwaher in the apartment) did give a feeling of meaning in a way when I started doing it. It's something practical, so it means a little less time spent doing nothing.



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26 Oct 2016, 12:23 am

I had a new kind of peppermint tea today it was called tea drop it was really nice.



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26 Oct 2016, 12:35 am

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DataB4 wrote:
I definitely find meaning in giving to others, so yes, I do find some meaning in life. I get the sense that some people here can also relate to my feeling though that so much of everyday conversation is superficial, providing only crumbs of meaning. In general, I need to find a way to make peace with the idea that I have to cultivate a meaningful life, moment by moment, trying things, hoping they work, hoping that mundane tasks lead to meaningful results, ETC. Otherwise, I'll keep feeling sad and frustrated.


I also prefer deeper conversations. Deeper one on one conversations with someone I trust, can give some comfort. Or talking about something one have in common, but it isn't often I meet someone like that, and for me it takes very long time to develope trust. For me, interacting with other people only feels meaningfull if I can be/dare to be myself. Otherwise it just nourishes the shame.

Actually making my own dinner more or less from scratch, and doing the dishes (even though there is a dishwaher in the apartment) did give a feeling of meaning in a way when I started doing it. It's something practical, so it means a little less time spent doing nothing.


Through the miracle of the Internet, I've had many many deep discussions with all sorts of people. I'm not a trusting person either, though I do find that, in person, if both people open up about themselves at about the same rate, then meaningful conversations are more likely.



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26 Oct 2016, 12:56 am

^It comes with the diognosis that it is not always so easey to know when you are too open or not open enough :P

Are you diagnosed with asperger syndrome? Your profile dosn't say :)



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26 Oct 2016, 9:51 am

I have no idea what to do today.....


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26 Oct 2016, 9:53 am

Is it weird of me that I really don't feel like going to Black Friday with my dad this year? :|


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26 Oct 2016, 11:00 am

How to play video games? doing the tutorial missions


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26 Oct 2016, 1:58 pm

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Is it weird of me that I really don't feel like going to Black Friday with my dad this year? :|

Naw, stay in,
Avoid the swarms. 8O


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26 Oct 2016, 2:03 pm

Cute kitty mew mew.


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26 Oct 2016, 2:17 pm

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Cute kitty mew mew.


Tokyo mew mew.


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26 Oct 2016, 2:28 pm

^That's an actual show? 8)


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