02 Nov 2016, 4:30 pm
I'll pm you something nice. 
You're so much nicer at saying things than I am.
Your not bad at such.
I agree
02 Nov 2016, 4:37 pm
02 Nov 2016, 4:39 pm
I'm seriously thinking about leaving university. I need to be brave if I'm going to tell my mum about it, though. 
02 Nov 2016, 4:55 pm
There is no doubt that that is what you really want to do... Maybe you should discuss it with your mum? She might have some say about it, if she's the one that is going to take care of you financially.....
I wish I could just tell you what (I think) you want to hear, but that would be irresponsible of me. The thing is we have no guarantees that the decisions we make in life are the best ones, we can't predict the future can we?
Good luck!
02 Nov 2016, 5:07 pm
^.... and I'm terrible at making big decisions anyway. After having plans of buying an apartment for YEARS, I in the end needed a "kick in the but" to actually do it 
02 Nov 2016, 5:09 pm
02 Nov 2016, 5:12 pm
I think that is what we are doing a little bit on this forum?
I didn't really notice that until now. Lol
There you see
02 Nov 2016, 5:39 pm
Now I know why I don't have any friends IRL. I saw a girl with a Pokemon shirt, and I ran up to her, really happy, saying "I like your shirt!" Maybe a little too happy. She looked at me weird, and diddnt say anything, and continued on. My mom got mad at me, but eventually got over it, but now I'm steaming mad at myself for freaking out, I mean, I just couldnt controll myself! And to make it hurt even worse, mom pointed out a couple holding hands in the parking lot, and that made me upset. I know I shouldnt get mad at them or my mom, but I'm really ticked at myself. WHY CANT I JUST BE NORMAL KID
That wasn't nice of her.
I wish I had an answer for you. I gather that you wish you could tone down your reactions to things.Also, instead of telling yourself that you'll always mess up, how about telling yourself that you're learning? Even if that learning is happening slower than you might like? Maybe write down or tell someone about the things you've learned, because learning is valuable. Hugs, Midnightstar.
02 Nov 2016, 10:52 pm
02 Nov 2016, 10:53 pm
03 Nov 2016, 12:05 am
WHY CANT I JUST BE A NORMAL 26 YEAR OLD
I should be rocking a nice career, a car, and a hot wife by now but instead I have unemployment, disability and gaming and I spend most my days crying to a stuff animal.
So yeah, life is horrible and it will never get better. Just remember these feels cause odds are, you will probably feel like an abnormal adult too. Also I hate to be the carrier of bad news but its much worse as an adult so those feels haven't even developed to maturity yet and if I was you I would try to never let that happen. Try and enter adulthood feeling some level of normal, otherwise your gonna have a bad time.
03 Nov 2016, 1:08 am
It seems some just want a robot that does it's told and utters no objections even when there is clear violations.I'm no robot *%^& I'll doubt I'll ever fit in anywhere in the workplace cause of this policy or that policy. 
03 Nov 2016, 1:31 am
You are employable kazanscube,
I am a horrible person and a horrible employee with a horrible disorder and I held down a job for 2 years. If I can do it anyone can do it. It was horrible and I had tons of road blocks but I even got a raise before being completely screwed. There is hope but I can give you a few extremely obvious tips.
1. Don't get involved in coworkers lives... like ask someone on a date...
2. Don't steal from work, yes I am that horrible of a person to have to include this.
3. Don't question authority even if you think its bad
4. Don't do drugs outside the building
5. Do your work
6. Conversations at lunch should be light and you should only say a few sentences
7. Hide signs of autism or any disorder whatever they may be, for me it was my arm shaking at times
and finally,
8. Thou shall not commit no shows to work without calling ahead.
That is really all there is to it 
03 Nov 2016, 1:44 am
I am a horrible person and a horrible employee with a horrible disorder and I held down a job for 2 years. If I can do it anyone can do it. It was horrible and I had tons of road blocks but I even got a raise before being completely screwed. There is hope but I can give you a few extremely obvious tips.
1. Don't get involved in coworkers lives... like ask someone on a date...
2. Don't steal from work, yes I am that horrible of a person to have to include this.
3. Don't question authority even if you think its bad
4. Don't do drugs outside the building
5. Do your work
6. Conversations at lunch should be light and you should only say a few sentences
7. Hide signs of autism or any disorder whatever they may be, for me it was my arm shaking at times
and finally,
8. Thou shall not commit no shows to work without calling ahead.
That is really all there is to it
dcj123, I've always stuck to the rules even when there was clear violations, never did I question authority even when I had been wrongfully accused of something without any literal evidence whatosever.
As well, some but not all companies use those stupid online questionnaires which to me are nothing more than a version of Minnesota Multiphasic Personality Inventory which has been altered in a corporate fashion but, no less still relevant means to weed out the so-called "bad hires".
03 Nov 2016, 5:28 am
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03 Nov 2016, 8:18 am
Now I know why I don't have any friends IRL. I saw a girl with a Pokemon shirt, and I ran up to her, really happy, saying "I like your shirt!" Maybe a little too happy. She looked at me weird, and diddnt say anything, and continued on. My mom got mad at me, but eventually got over it, but now I'm steaming mad at myself for freaking out, I mean, I just couldnt controll myself! And to make it hurt even worse, mom pointed out a couple holding hands in the parking lot, and that made me upset. I know I shouldnt get mad at them or my mom, but I'm really ticked at myself. WHY CANT I JUST BE NORMAL KID
That wasn't nice of her.
I wish I had an answer for you. I gather that you wish you could tone down your reactions to things.Also, instead of telling yourself that you'll always mess up, how about telling yourself that you're learning? Even if that learning is happening slower than you might like? Maybe write down or tell someone about the things you've learned, because learning is valuable. Hugs, Midnightstar.
The problem is is that I get little to no interaction with other kids, even though I'm constantly running errands with my mom. When I do meet another kid, I freak out and forget everything I learn and revert back to what I would normally do.
