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04 Aug 2009, 3:50 am

I can't believe I can't go into a chatroom for people aged 20 and up without some 15 year old pestering me with sexual questions! Don't these kids (or morons) realise that it's ILLEGAL for me to get involved???????? Really.............

Sorry, I just had some kid ask me stuff for a "sex ed" assignment........I told him to ask his parents and left the room.........ugh.


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04 Aug 2009, 3:56 am

Kezzstar wrote:
I can't believe I can't go into a chatroom for people aged 20 and up without some 15 year old pestering me with sexual questions! Don't these kids (or morons) realise that it's ILLEGAL for me to get involved???????? Really.............

Sorry, I just had some kid ask me stuff for a "sex ed" assignment........I told him to ask his parents and left the room.........ugh.



report the little pest to the mods or whatever.If the room was designated for 20 and up, the kid should not even be allowed there.


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04 Aug 2009, 3:59 am

Tory_canuck wrote:
Kezzstar wrote:
I can't believe I can't go into a chatroom for people aged 20 and up without some 15 year old pestering me with sexual questions! Don't these kids (or morons) realise that it's ILLEGAL for me to get involved???????? Really.............

Sorry, I just had some kid ask me stuff for a "sex ed" assignment........I told him to ask his parents and left the room.........ugh.



report the little pest to the mods or whatever.If the room was designated for 20 and up, the kid should not even be allowed there.


I did. But after that I just felt awful, so I left. Silly little idiots..............I mean, what is the point?


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04 Aug 2009, 4:02 am

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Tory_canuck wrote:
Kezzstar wrote:
I can't believe I can't go into a chatroom for people aged 20 and up without some 15 year old pestering me with sexual questions! Don't these kids (or morons) realise that it's ILLEGAL for me to get involved???????? Really.............

Sorry, I just had some kid ask me stuff for a "sex ed" assignment........I told him to ask his parents and left the room.........ugh.



report the little pest to the mods or whatever.If the room was designated for 20 and up, the kid should not even be allowed there.




I did. But after that I just felt awful, so I left. Silly little idiots..............I mean, what is the point?



Dont feel awful.You did the right thing.The little idiot signed on under false pretenses thus violating the terms of the agreement.He brought it upon himself.


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04 Aug 2009, 4:06 am

Tory_canuck wrote:
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Tory_canuck wrote:
Kezzstar wrote:
I can't believe I can't go into a chatroom for people aged 20 and up without some 15 year old pestering me with sexual questions! Don't these kids (or morons) realise that it's ILLEGAL for me to get involved???????? Really.............

Sorry, I just had some kid ask me stuff for a "sex ed" assignment........I told him to ask his parents and left the room.........ugh.



report the little pest to the mods or whatever.If the room was designated for 20 and up, the kid should not even be allowed there.




I did. But after that I just felt awful, so I left. Silly little idiots..............I mean, what is the point?



Dont feel awful.You did the right thing.The little idiot signed on under false pretenses thus violating the terms of the agreement.He brought it upon himself.


Still, the thought that kids are out there doing that............I mean, what if he hadn't told me his age and he had asked questions that I answered because I thought he was legal???????????? *shudder*

I'm paranoid, I know. Ugh.............


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04 Aug 2009, 4:40 am

In France, policemen are now allowed to pretend being minors.
It's a very recent law and it's meant to protect the real minors (under 18 here) from dirty predators.

But they go the other you do: they get in touch with young people on chat rooms dedicated for the youngsters and pretend to be one of them. So as they can catch the pedophiles.

So you're not paranoid. Everyone has to be cautious about one's speech.
It's very easy for some to make fun of others on internet.



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04 Aug 2009, 4:46 am

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In France, policemen are now allowed to pretend being minors.
It's a very recent law and it's meant to protect the real minors (under 18 here) from dirty predators.

But they go the other you do: they get in touch with young people on chat rooms dedicated for the youngsters and pretend to be one of them. So as they can catch the pedophiles.

So you're not paranoid. Everyone has to be cautious about one's speech.
It's very easy for some to make fun of others on internet.


I know. I still feel a bit squimish.

Another thought just occured to me. What the smeg are his parents doing if they aren't supervising him?


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04 Aug 2009, 4:55 am

At work?
(For instance.)

Don't you know how it's difficult to supervise teen agers when they are on their PCs?
Especially if those are in their bedrooms, doors closed.

And some are so good with computers that they can do whatever they want despite any parent's precautions.



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04 Aug 2009, 5:12 am

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At work?
(For instance.)

Don't you know how it's difficult to supervise teen agers when they are on their PCs?
Especially if those are in their bedrooms, doors closed.

And some are so good with computers that they can do whatever they want despite any parent's precautions.


*sigh*

That is why from a young age children should have it drummed into them that their parents know best*, and that they should be obeyed. Also, why are children allowed internet access in their bedrooms???? I didn't get that until I was 18.

And then the kids have the hide to complain when bad stuff happens to them............geez

*I do realise some parents aren't exactly the parental type!


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04 Aug 2009, 5:33 am

:? Parents don't always know best.
They know for sure for some things but not for others.



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04 Aug 2009, 3:39 pm

I think it's quite difficult nowadays as children between 11-15 years seem to be becoming more promiscuous (I say 11-15 years as, in the UK, the legal age of consent is 16, so adjust according to your country's legal age). So they are going to ask questions related to sex online so as to retain some anonymity without actually having to confront an adult who may not want to talk to them. If they get knocked back online for whatever reason, they won't feel as bad about it and are likely to ask someone else. Sometimes they don't disclose their age which readily gets them the answer they are looking for. It is very difficult to police websites like this to look for minors, unless they reveal themselves. Kezzstar, the fact that you told this person to ask their parents and report them was the right thing to do.


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05 Aug 2009, 4:26 am

Fiz wrote:
I think it's quite difficult nowadays as children between 11-15 years seem to be becoming more promiscuous (I say 11-15 years as, in the UK, the legal age of consent is 16, so adjust according to your country's legal age). So they are going to ask questions related to sex online so as to retain some anonymity without actually having to confront an adult who may not want to talk to them. If they get knocked back online for whatever reason, they won't feel as bad about it and are likely to ask someone else. Sometimes they don't disclose their age which readily gets them the answer they are looking for. It is very difficult to police websites like this to look for minors, unless they reveal themselves. Kezzstar, the fact that you told this person to ask their parents and report them was the right thing to do.


I feel much better about it today, although I don't think I will be hitting that chat room again anytime soon.

There's still the "Ew" factor there.


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05 Aug 2009, 8:16 am

Kezzstar wrote:
That is why from a young age children should have it drummed into them that their parents know best*, and that they should be obeyed. Also, why are children allowed internet access in their bedrooms???? I didn't get that until I was 18.

Oh, of course, because you had a crappy childhood everybody else should. :roll:

*currently sitting in his bedroom*


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05 Aug 2009, 8:36 am

my litele brothers always ask me what things like you said mean, Fetish, Penetratte, whatthe frog position is, my 12 year old aspie friend is also a nysgjerrigper, he shows no thing like mercy when it comes to such questions at aall.



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05 Aug 2009, 9:51 am

"nysgjerrigper"

i notice kids will also ask just to hear you say certain words, to "check" if words/concepts are well known among those close to them.

both my brother when he was little, and my sisters later on have asked me stuff that i SUSPECT they allready knew about.
my reply each time
"................. you know what? ask your mother about that one."

if i HAVE to do embarassing explanations, it should at least be something they dunno about, not just for them to hear me say certain words, or nearly kill myself w embarassment trying to find synonyms or something.

kids are sneaky. i was sneaky myself.


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05 Aug 2009, 10:01 am

zena4 wrote:
In France, policemen are now allowed to pretend being minors.
It's a very recent law and it's meant to protect the real minors (under 18 here) from dirty predators.

But they go the other you do: they get in touch with young people on chat rooms dedicated for the youngsters and pretend to be one of them. So as they can catch the pedophiles.

So you're not paranoid. Everyone has to be cautious about one's speech.
It's very easy for some to make fun of others on internet.


Same in Canada and the US. Many pedophiles have been caught this way.


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