I'm trying to figure out how to deflect comments on how I look based on what I wear. I don't like being complimented on how I look or being asked if I feel well.
Main issue is what I like/don't like doesn't seem to be the same as what NT's I know see.
Ex. Recently I wore a blue skirt & top & my friend told me she didn't think I look right in blue, that I should wear stuff like pink & brown
I like dark & bright colors/why I wear the stuff I do.
I have been getting comments (mostly compliments though) on what I've been wearing almost everyday since I started college.
(Everything from my slinky necklace to any piece of my clothing.) Only thing I've figured out is I should determine what colors make me look sick v/ healthy do deflect "are you feeling alright?" comments. I can't even do that! Is their a way to deflect these kinds of comments (by what I wear or how I present myself)? I honestly don't care what NT's think I look like, I just want them to keep their mouthes shut. Goal is to go completely unnoticed.
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Balance is needed within the universe, can be demonstrated in most/all concepts/things. Black/White, Good/Evil, etc.
All dependent upon your own perspective in your own form of existence, so trust your own gut and live the way YOU want/need to.