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Peko
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16 Sep 2009, 11:56 am

I'm trying to figure out how to deflect comments on how I look based on what I wear. I don't like being complimented on how I look or being asked if I feel well. :roll: Main issue is what I like/don't like doesn't seem to be the same as what NT's I know see.

Ex. Recently I wore a blue skirt & top & my friend told me she didn't think I look right in blue, that I should wear stuff like pink & brown :? I like dark & bright colors/why I wear the stuff I do.

I have been getting comments (mostly compliments though) on what I've been wearing almost everyday since I started college. :? (Everything from my slinky necklace to any piece of my clothing.) Only thing I've figured out is I should determine what colors make me look sick v/ healthy do deflect "are you feeling alright?" comments. I can't even do that! Is their a way to deflect these kinds of comments (by what I wear or how I present myself)? I honestly don't care what NT's think I look like, I just want them to keep their mouthes shut. Goal is to go completely unnoticed.


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16 Sep 2009, 4:44 pm

Going completely unnoticed might require Active Camouflage:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Active_camouflage

http://halo.wikia.com/wiki/Active_Camouflage


Otherwise, I'm not sure. If you don't want comments about the clothes you wear, I'm not sure what to say.
There are probably always going to be people who want to start a conversation with you and they will point out anything unique or noticeable.



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16 Sep 2009, 7:40 pm

Well, I'd worry people would ask why I'm wearing panels if I did that :lol:


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17 Sep 2009, 3:09 am

You can't do better than dressing in all black clothing.

Black clothing says that you are
(1) Intellectual
(2) A private person
(3) Really cool
(4) A bit scary



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17 Sep 2009, 4:34 am

^I second the black suggestion above.

Or try dark bottoms with a white top.



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17 Sep 2009, 5:21 am

Peko wrote:
I honestly don't care what NT's think I look like, I just want them to keep their mouthes shut.


Tell them to shut up; fixes it.