elderwanda wrote:
Well, I don't know if this can be called synchronicity, but it's kind of interesting, I think, and perhaps related. In all of my life, I never actually saw a woman breastfeeding a baby. Then I had my baby (12 years ago), and all of a sudden, everywhere I went, women were nursing babies. Literally, every day, I would see a woman on a park bench or something, nursing a baby. As soon as my children were both done with that phase of their lives, and I was no longer a breastfeeding mother, I stopped seeing nursing mothers everywhere. It's like they are only visible to each other.
There is a term in psychology, something like the "reticular activating system". It works like this: The brain is constantly bombarded with vast amounts of information about the surroundings. There is way to much information to bring to consciousness to actively think about it; so the brain has evolved to create temporary shopping lists of things are are relevant and important now. So if you buy a new car of a particular make and model you suddenly start seeing it everywhere else; similar with other consumer goods. It also applies to life situations such as yours. Only information about the things that are relevant now reaches your conscious thoughts, the rest is just filtered out.
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I've left WP indefinitely.