After a long hiatus and some major RL issues - like a rebound of a relationship that didn't work out - I actually have decided to come back for a little bit.
Anyway, onto other discussions - what for you would be a Happy Place and what for you would be a Black Bug Room, according to their definitions on TVTropes?
Definition of "Happy Place" on TVTropes
Definition of "Black Bug Room" on TVTropes
For me, the Happy Place has changed recently. It is now a place looking a lot like an idealised Tokyo (yes, I am once again a Nipponophile at least mildly) and it has a lot of happy-sounding J-Pop blaring in it.
Conversely, my Black Bug Room is looking a lot like a mishmash of Australian stereotypes, inclement weather, and Dutch windmills and other Dutch stuff. (Yes, I'm none too keen on Dutchies, considering that I once had an Aspergian obsession with the subject that wound up making me look bad I think it's understandable).
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Andre Gide
French critic, essayist, & novelist (1869 - 1951)