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26 Jul 2010, 9:04 am

I'm not going into a dabate as to whether or not this is right or wrong But I've been wondering.....

Have any of you guys and gals had a guilt trip put you? Or while I'm at it, have any of you put someone else on a guilt trip?

I'm not saying that It's right, but there have been times in the past when I've done this in order to get what I want.

Also I've had it done to me as well....

Also have any of you had a friend fall out with you and with you being really upset and all gone and beat them up (or whatever) until they became your 'friend' again?

I'm not saying that to do those things is right or wrong but I was wondering what you gays and gals thought....

Goodbey Till Next Time



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27 Jul 2010, 8:54 pm

my morals

don't tattle
always make fun of those different from you
never say anything, unless you're absolutely sure everyone feels the same way you do
hmm what else...



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27 Jul 2010, 9:06 pm

My morals:

Do onto others, as I would like to have done, to myself.
It's the survival of the nicest.


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27 Jul 2010, 9:19 pm

in reality its the good die young but the pricks live forever



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27 Jul 2010, 9:31 pm

You have to be tough, to make it in today's world.

Don't cheat


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27 Jul 2010, 9:32 pm

I cheat all the time, God gave the gift of winning, and I think cheating is the gift man gives himself



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27 Jul 2010, 9:43 pm

My mother is the queen of guilt trips. It took me *years* to figure out she was doing it.

I try not to guilt trip people, but apparently I'm very bad at avoiding it.

What are my morals?

"And it harm none, do what ye will."


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28 Jul 2010, 5:18 am

if i have a child treat them like their age not no b.s mental age, :roll:


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28 Jul 2010, 6:53 am

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
My mother is the queen of guilt trips.


Same here. It's so annoying and it doesn't even work.



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28 Jul 2010, 10:58 am

1. Challenge authority.



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28 Jul 2010, 11:01 am

Ferdinand wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
My mother is the queen of guilt trips.


Same here. It's so annoying and it doesn't even work.


It never worked on me, either. I just thought she was an emotional mess before I figured it out. lol




... so glad I cut her out of my life. My stress levels were drastically reduced.


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28 Jul 2010, 11:02 am

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
I cut her out of my life.


Should I feel ashamed if I want to do the same?



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28 Jul 2010, 11:03 am

MONIQUEIJ wrote:
if i have a child treat them like their age not no b.s mental age, :roll:


I have two children, and chronological age doesn't mean as much as you think.


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28 Jul 2010, 11:04 am

Ferdinand wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
I cut her out of my life.


Should I feel ashamed if I want to do the same?


I don't know your situation, so I can't answer that. My mom was abusive.


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28 Jul 2010, 11:08 am

Kilroy wrote:
my morals

don't tattle
always make fun of those different from you
never say anything, unless you're absolutely sure everyone feels the same way you do
hmm what else...


are you serious?



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28 Jul 2010, 11:39 am

camphortree wrote:
Kilroy wrote:
never say anything, unless you're absolutely sure everyone feels the same way you do
hmm what else...


are you serious?

I hope not. What a chicken. :cat: ...there isn't a chicken emoticon.
Well anyway I disagree with MONIQUE because I think you should treat your offspring in accordance with their cognitive maturity.
Morals? I don't cheat and I don't change my opinions to avoid offending people.


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